Welcome
to the 'At Play' pictures page. Taking photographs is something that I've
enjoyed since childhood. I hope you
enjoy the
pictures
with family, friends and 'critters'
who have blessed my journey while living with HIV/AIDS!
My hope is that by you finding this page, it will help change your perceptions
of those living with HIV/AIDS. There is no one face to this disease and it is
important that we understand that there are many faces to AIDS. Sadly, it is
estimated that 33 million people in the World are living with HIV, and there are
over 1 million people living with HIV in the United States. Personally, I have
been living with HIV/AIDS for 26 years. As a
youth HIV/AIDS educator and
AIDS
activist, I wholeheartedly remain committed to
raising awareness in the
fight against AIDS. After losing dozens of friends to AIDS, I
pray that we
will soon see and END to this pandemic - enough is enough already! I
remind myself and you, AIDS does not have be a death sentence, rather, a "life
sentence." Thank you for taking the time to view my website and for educating
yourselves and others.
In
2002 I was 15 years old.
Bored and disenchanted
in an overcrowded and
stuffy windowless
classroom in Los
Angeles. Somehow (I
don't remember this part
exactly) I became
affiliated with an after
school mentorship
program that worked with
PEP LA. We were
supposed to learn about
sex and teach though
peer education workshops
with the rest of the
school and other high
schools in the area.
(Maybe I signed up to
get out of class?
Probably.) It was fun,
and we learned a lot-
but everything changed
the day we met 'Da
Pirate'.
Bob Bowers was so
cool! He had all of
these crazy
tattoos, rode a
motorcycle, and was
just a hilarious / bad
ass / super sweet / kind
/ down to earth guy. And
he was the first
HIV+
person I'd ever really
known. It was different
when he talked to us.
Until then, we had heard
lots of
HIV+ guest speakers,
sure.. but most of them
I felt sorry for. It was
depressing. They were
all very ill-looking. I
almost felt guilty for
being healthy! But with
Bob- Well, yeah he told
us about his 25-30 pills
he had to take per day,
and how he had to take a
spare change of clothes
everywhere because his
cocktail had some
'unpredictable side
effects', but it wasn't
sad. It wasn't
depressing. And I never
felt sorry for him. He
was just too cool! Too
awesome. And he liked
us, too.
Bob is still going on
strong after 25 years of
being
HIV+ / having
AIDS. He made us all
see
AIDS differently. He
made us feel like we
could do something about
it besides cry and feel
bad for those who had
it. And most of all- he
expected us to do
something about it, too.
He respected us enough
to make us feel
responsible- as a human
being - to take action.
And we did. We started
bake sales, held car
washes, and still
performed skits and
workshops teaching our
community about
HIV and AIDS. By the
end of the school year
our little group of 6
students raised $8,000
for a local
AIDS clinic. The
following Fall our group
of 6 turned into a group
of 13, and today in the
very same school there
are 42 students all
working on
fundraising
and
raising AIDS awareness
with local teens.
I know that Bob knows he
is a significant
influence, but I don't
think he realizes how
lasting an impression he
made on us. It's 7 years
later. All the high
school boyfriends,
drama, parties, junior
college, drugs, lovers,
broken bones, and years
later moving up here to
Oakland, becoming an
auntie, falling in love,
teaching preschool,
becoming a vegan chef,
traveling to new time
zones, working through
art school (graduating
w/ a BFA with honors on
May 9th. woo!), and
planning to learn to fly
a helicopter, and who am
I still wondering about?
BOB. Yup.
~Liana
Hey, I don't
know what it is to live with HIV, but I admire your fight, not only for
yourself, but for others in need of captain on their ship. You are right never
surrender that goes for whatever we commit ourselves to in our lives.
- Diana
Your courage in
the face of this adversity is truly inspirational, and bleeds out far beyond the
boundaries of the burden that you bear. When we, the people, stand united, with
God on our side...there is no darkness we cannot ignite, and no demon we can't
slay..
Here's to you my friend...a Lion among men!
~Roberto
The below pictures with friends and family, as well
as the solo photos, were taken over the course of the last 12 years. It is my hope that
people realize that people living with HIV/AIDS come from all walks of life, and that all
people living with HIV/AIDS can live with pride and dignity.
I
thought that
Bob was very inspirational and helpful. I don't
know how
anyone can live through the suffering...I think
that I would just give up
after awhile, but I admire Bob because he has lived
through these horrible
conditions for over 20 years. Bob is truly an inspirational
man, because
he has had the strength to live through this disease
and talk to kids
about his experience with it.
hey
bob! i just wanted let you know how amazing i think
you are. you seem to have such a positive outlook
on
life even through all of the tough times that you
have endured. listening to you speak today really
opened my eyes to all of the problems that
people
with HIV/AIDS face in our society. hearing your
story has really inspired me to do more research
on
AIDS and do all that i can to help out. i am
going to participate in the
AIDS ride this coming
summer because i was so inspired by your story.
i just want to thank you for sharing your story
with us. it was amazing to actually put a face and
a personality behind the virus. you are an extremely
amazing person. god bless and keep fighting.
Earvin “Magic” Johnson the famous basketball player for the Los Angeles Lakers
announced 17 years ago that he had
AIDS and would retire from his career. At the
age of 49, Johnson is still alive and doing well. With almost two decades of
living with the disease some people are surprised to hear that he is still
alive. In an interview with CNN he told reporters “Everyone thought I was going
to die like a year later.”
Today his appearance could lead anyone to believe that the disease was not as
menacing as it may sound, but Johnson is not the only person who lies to rest
the misconceptions of people who have AIDS.
Bob Bowers proves you don’t have to
be famous to survive.
Bowers has survived
HIV and AIDS for 25 years and he’s still living strong. In
1983 he contracted the virus from the sharing of needles; one
time was all it took. He’s a passionate activist and
HIV/AIDS educator
and is
one of the first 14,000 cases of AIDS diagnosed in the U.S. He strives to spread
the message of prevention through education. In educating he acknowledges and
truthfully answers all questions regarding his experiences with the disease,
even aspects of his personal life. He is very real and straightforward, which is
why his audiences are able to relate and thoroughly absorb his messages. He
stresses the necessity of universal precautions, meaning safety in all things.
Bowers’ passion and determination involving
HIV/AIDS isn’t limited to educating.
He strives to awaken a sleeping public that has seemingly forgotten that there
is still no cure for the millions of people living with HIV/AIDS.
Recent surveys and studies across the nation conducted by such media as the
New
York Times and UNICEF have shown that the majority of Americans are uneducated
regarding
HIV and AIDS. Public understanding of HIV and AIDS is vital to finding
a cure. The wrath of the disease does not encompass only gay men, prostitutes
and drug-users nor does it result in an immediate death sentence.
In 1986 Catherine Cory experienced complications during the birth of her first
and only child and needed a blood transfusion; two years later as she attempted
to donate blood she was told she was
HIV positive. The blood she received during
her transfusion two years earlier was tainted and to make matters worse, she had
breast-fed her child and he soon tested HIV positive as well. Catherine’s
husband, Richard Cory, has admitted how uneducated he was about the disease. “I
was almost afraid to touch Alex and Cathie for awhile.'' He said.
Catherine lived for many years symptom-free but became ill in 1999 from a liver
problem brought about as a side effect from an anti-AIDS medication she was
taking. Catherine died in 2000; her cause of death was complication from a
Hepatitis-C infection. Living over a decade of
life with HIV and the health
complications Catherine faced, her husband remembers that she kept her sense of
humor until the very end. He then recalls coming home from the hospital after
her death and having to tell their 14-year-old son, Alex. It was not Alex who
needed comforting, but his father, who says it was Alex that supported him
through such a difficult time.
Alex Cory, the son of Catherine and Richard Cory is now 22 years old. His
childhood was similar to many children, filled with love from his parents. He
attended grade school played the saxophone, joined the boy scouts, and had
braces. He experienced things most kids experience during their childhood. Alex
went on to graduate high school and college and now lives and works as any other
human being. He also expresses that his college experience was one of his
favorites. Throughout his growing years Alex has kept a closely knit group of
friends all accepting and understanding to the fact that he has AIDS. He isn’t
an active
educator or public speaker like
Bowers, although his father, who does
not carry the disease, is active with the Red Cross and with Global Ministries
through The United Methodist Church. Cory considers himself a normal guy. “I go
to work Monday through Friday and play video games in my free time,” he says.
Cory deals with his unique situation by being optimistic.
“I know that seems kinda hard if you’re depressed about having
AIDS/HIV, but
enjoying your life today is much better than being depressed about it. My mom
always said, ‘When you wake up in the morning you make a decision: Will today be
a good day or a bad day?’ Just starting the day with that in mind has helped me
to be optimistic. So go out there and do something with your life,” says Alex.
[In fact] Alex Cory has done just that. He is currently a successful computer
programmer for Dominion Enterprises in Norfolk Virginia, one of the nation’s
largest providers of highly targeted classified advertising. Alex has never
known life without the virus. One of his most memorable moments of facing people
uneducated about
HIV/AIDS was during his early childhood. “I blurted out at the
bus stop at a very young age that I had AIDS,” said Alex. “I guess I was naive
and thought it was a good thing.” He also remembers there were those that would
run away in fear (literally). There were times when children found out that Alex
had AIDS and they would run when they saw him coming near.
Bowers believes that children aren’t told what they should know about HIV and
AIDS because there are many other issues people face when explaining the
disease. Issues like gay men, prostitutes and drug-users. Bowers has spoken to
people both young and old who do not understand
HIV/AIDS. He believes that the
reason many children remain uneducated is because the people who should be
telling them about the diseases are afraid or uneducated themselves.
“We can’t tell
people drug addiction is a bad thing, just don’t do it with no
explanation,” says Bowers. HIV/AIDS has to be explained and children want
questions answered. Questions like how soon will a person who has AIDS/HIV die?
People often conceive that death soon follows a HIV diagnosis, with over 45
years of living with HIV/AIDS between the two Bowers and Alex Cory have put that
myth to rest.
This is not to say that a person can contract HIV and continue living a
significant life span without assistance. There has been no such reported case.
HIV/AIDS patients receive life-saving medications and treatments to withstand
the HIV and AIDS.
Alex Cory currently takes 12 pills a day. He recalls a time he once was taking
40 pills twice a day.
The HIV and AIDS medications that have helped preserve the lives of people like
Bowers and Cory living with the disease are not immediately available to all.
This is a major concern of Bowers, last year The New York Times reported that
350 people in South Carolina were on a waiting list for HIV/AIDS life-saving
drugs. This year that list has risen to 500. North Carolina reportedly once had
a waiting list of more than 800. There is no waiting list in California, but
because we have no waiting list there is what some might call a penalty for a
good standing. According to President Bush’s budget new federal resources for
HIV/AIDS will not be available to states without a waiting list, states like
California.
An estimated cost for
HIV/AIDS therapy and treatment can range from $10,000 to
$14,000 plus per year per person for outpatient medication, meaning the amount
doesn’t include medicine received during hospital stays. Government assisted
insurance such as Medicaid is available for
people diagnosed with HIV/AIDS.
Bowers is a recipient of Medicaid, and says that he would not be able to afford
the medication or treatment without their help. Currently Bowers’ daily
medication consists of 14 pills his peak was 65 pills daily in the late ‘90s.
The total cost for his current medication is roughly $3,000 per month he doesn’t
pay that amount only a co-payment or deductible which is a fraction of the total
cost.
Treatment has shown great strides for HIV/AIDS patients, but the concerns
throughout the HIV/AIDS community are whether these medications are available to
the people who need them.
People with HIV/AIDS who have tried existing
medications which fail to work for them will be offered a new drug called Fuzeon
awaiting FDA approval and has a price tag of $20,000 per year. Fuzeon is only
one medication, the combination of all medication for an average AIDS/HIV
patient plus adding Fuezon to a patients list would more than double that total.
Insurance companies usually pay for most
HIV/AIDS treatments but uninsured
people face a difficult road. Data from the United Nations program on AIDS
reported, globally, there were 33.2 million people living with the disease in
2007 and a total of 2.1 million AIDS-related deaths in that same year.
Arguably the biggest concern among the
HIV/AIDS community is the quest for a
cure. Although Bowers appreciates the great strides the medical community has
made with HIV/AIDS medication, he questions why there hasn’t been more progress
towards a cure. Since the first case of AIDS in the U.S. was reported in 1981
the epidemic has grown rapidly. According to the Department of Health and Human
Services Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, a revised 2007 count of the
total number of HIV/AIDS cases in the U.S. totals approximately one million.
Bowers believes that a cure lays in the social aspects of human beings meaning
that we need to understand, tolerate and learn more about one another. We should
strive to be accepting to the differences of others. Knowledge is the key,
people can learn about something they are afraid of only to find out it was not
frightening to begin. He believes that if we as a people make finding a cure a
priority it can happen.