"If
there were such a thing
as a force of destiny
in our lives, I would
say that Bob was born
for this role; no one
has carried this difficult
mantle with more dignity,
conviction, purpose,
and compassion."
~Madeleine
Schwab
Cross Roads High School
Santa Monica, California
I'd like to extend
my sincere and heartfelt
thanks for your
compassion, love,
support, and
for taking the time
to visit! I sincerely
hope that you enjoy
this site.
OTP has been in
existence for eight years now.
This
site pays homage
to hope, survival
and to the over
25 million of our
courageous brothers
and sisters, that
were taken from
us far too early
in life. My wish
is that it also
lends hope to those
who pass upon these
pages. No matter
what obstacles we
may face in life,
I truly believe
that where there
is a will, there
is a way. May this
site be a reminder
to us all, myself
included, that we
are indeed one.
May we remember
that life is precious
and a wondrous passage
worthy of giving
it our all.
I am truly blessed
to be alive. I have
survived living
with HIV/AIDS for a quarter of a century
and have dedicated
my life to educating
and empowering others
about this dreadful
scourge we call
AIDS. I fight equally
to be a voice of
hope, knowing that
we all have
obstacles to overcome.
I've come to realize
that good, bad or
ugly, life is truly
a blessing. Throughout
these many years,
I have had the privilege
and honor to speak
to countless thousands
of students and
adults alike about
real life and living
life with HIV/AIDS,
neither of which
are easy. I hope
that through my
speaking, or in
my day to day interactions,
that I've helped
empower others to
live life to the
fullest as you have
helped me! I give
endless thanks and
praise to you,
my family, friends
and those individuals
who have blessed
my voyage to this
point in life. I
say without a doubt,
"I did not get here
alone!" Your involvement
in my life and/or
words of love, encouragement
and compassion are
forever embedded
in my heart, soul,
mission and on the
many pages throughout
this site! Once
again,
welcome!
"The Pirate of Dane
County"
One Tough Pirate in this month's Positively Aware
POZ Focus Piece
Available now at bookstores!
Da Pirate is featured in the Summer 2008 issue of America's
first full color pirate magazine and the only pirate
magazine available in Barnes & Noble, Borders, Hastings,
Transworld, Dalton Books, & Books A Million!
You hold a great
deal of fire! It's nice to see that we [humanity] are able to use it in a
positive way. That in itself is inspiring and fortunately... inspiration is a
great infection in itself that helps to spread knowledge rapidly.
thank you for all that you do, being strong!!
Click here to view a detailed video recap of the ACT
6 AIDS Ride in Madison, by Channel 27's Lauren Marcu who
participated again this year. Thank you Lauren!
Some people think that
a hero is someone like
a firefighter, soldier
or a sports star. Someone
who is brave, honest
and invincible. After
listening to you speak
the other day, I would
say the true hero is
you. You are brave because
you can say what you
feel and express your
emotions in front of
100's of people. Living
with AIDS for 23 years
makes you invincible
and for that, I give
you my utmost respect
and thanks. I never
thought that someone
could change my outlook
of life in just one
hour. Out of all the
lectures and speeches
I've listened to in
my life, yours was by
far the best. You give
people a glimpse into
the real world of a
person living with AIDS
and you definitely got
through to us. You break
the stereotypical image
of a person with AIDS.
You didn't want to tell
us what to do, which
made us instantly like
you. Someone who has
the ability to make
a group of people laugh,
cry, and think, has
an amazing talent. I
wish I knew the words
to say how much I appreciate
you coming to to speak.
I wish you the best
of luck on the rest
of your journey through
life. If I could achieve
just a fraction of what
you have done in my
life, I could die happy.
But for now, we both
know who the
hero is.
View the
most
recent
news
about
"What if
it Were
You?"
Aired
Thursday
June 19,
2008
Note:
The
photos
that I
added at
the end
of the
clip are
not
accompanied
with
audio.
CONGRATULATIONS
and
THANKS
to
Collin
Burke
from
Memorial
High
School!!
You not only
supplied us with valuable information, you supplied us with
inspiration and I am so very happy to know that there are
positive people such as yourself that are spreading such
important messages in this world. Not since reading The
Diary of Anne Frank as a young girl has one person's life
story touched such a heartstrings in me and inspired me to
enjoy life to it's fullest. I'll be sure and come back and visit the web page
often so I can stay updated on the life of
Da Pirate. Take
care and bless you!
I can think of few who should be honored in such a way. You inspire SO many. Whether it's Camp Heartland, the
ACT Rides, a rally in Texas, or an
informational session in LA, you are amazing. More than that, you are a beacon of hope that 20+ years is possible. Keep up the good work.
Yours in fight,
David H
Earvin “Magic” Johnson the famous basketball player for the Los Angeles Lakers
announced 17 years ago that he had
AIDS and would retire from his career. At the
age of 49, Johnson is still alive and doing well. With almost two decades of
living with the disease some people are surprised to hear that he is still
alive. In an interview with CNN he told reporters “Everyone thought I was going
to die like a year later.”
Today his appearance could lead anyone to believe that the disease was not as
menacing as it may sound, but Johnson is not the only person who lies to rest
the misconceptions of people who have AIDS.
Bob Bowers proves you don’t have to
be famous to survive.
Bowers has survived
HIV and AIDS for 25 years and he’s still living strong. In
1983 he contracted the virus from the sharing of needles; one
time was all it took. He’s a passionate activist and
HIV/AIDS educator
and is
one of the first 14,000 cases of AIDS diagnosed in the U.S. He strives to spread
the message of prevention through education. In educating he acknowledges and
truthfully answers all questions regarding his experiences with the disease,
even aspects of his personal life. He is very real and straightforward, which is
why his audiences are able to relate and thoroughly absorb his messages. He
stresses the necessity of universal precautions, meaning safety in all things.
Bowers’ passion and determination involving HIV/AIDS isn’t limited to educating.
He strives to awaken a sleeping public that has seemingly forgotten that there
is still no cure for the millions of people living with HIV/AIDS.
Recent surveys and studies across the nation conducted by such media as the
New
York Times and UNICEF have shown that the majority of Americans are uneducated
regarding HIV and AIDS. Public understanding of HIV and AIDS is vital to finding
a cure. The wrath of the disease does not encompass only gay men, prostitutes
and drug-users nor does it result in an immediate death sentence.
In 1986 Catherine Cory experienced complications during the birth of her first
and only child and needed a blood transfusion; two years later as she attempted
to donate blood she was told she was HIV positive. The blood she received during
her transfusion two years earlier was tainted and to make matters worse, she had
breast-fed her child and he soon tested HIV positive as well. Catherine’s
husband, Richard Cory, has admitted how uneducated he was about the disease. “I
was almost afraid to touch Alex and Cathie for awhile.'' He said.
Catherine lived for many years symptom-free but became ill in 1999 from a liver
problem brought about as a side effect from an anti-AIDS medication she was
taking. Catherine died in 2000; her cause of death was complication from a
Hepatitis-C infection. Living over a decade of life with HIV and the health
complications Catherine faced, her husband remembers that she kept her sense of
humor until the very end. He then recalls coming home from the hospital after
her death and having to tell their 14-year-old son, Alex. It was not Alex who
needed comforting, but his father, who says it was Alex that supported him
through such a difficult time.
Alex Cory, the son of Catherine and Richard Cory is now 22 years old. His
childhood was similar to many children, filled with love from his parents. He
attended grade school played the saxophone, joined the boy scouts, and had
braces. He experienced things most kids experience during their childhood. Alex
went on to graduate high school and college and now lives and works as any other
human being. He also expresses that his college experience was one of his
favorites. Throughout his growing years Alex has kept a closely knit group of
friends all accepting and understanding to the fact that he has AIDS. He isn’t
an active educator or public speaker like Bowers, although his father, who does
not carry the disease, is active with the Red Cross and with Global Ministries
through The United Methodist Church. Cory considers himself a normal guy. “I go
to work Monday through Friday and play video games in my free time,” he says.
Cory deals with his unique situation by being optimistic.
“I know that seems kinda hard if you’re depressed about having AIDS/HIV, but
enjoying your life today is much better than being depressed about it. My mom
always said, ‘When you wake up in the morning you make a decision: Will today be
a good day or a bad day?’ Just starting the day with that in mind has helped me
to be optimistic. So go out there and do something with your life,” says Alex.
[In fact] Alex Cory has done just that. He is currently a successful computer
programmer for Dominion Enterprises in Norfolk Virginia, one of the nation’s
largest providers of highly targeted classified advertising. Alex has never
known life without the virus. One of his most memorable moments of facing people
uneducated about HIV/AIDS was during his early childhood. “I blurted out at the
bus stop at a very young age that I had AIDS,” said Alex. “I guess I was naive
and thought it was a good thing.” He also remembers there were those that would
run away in fear (literally). There were times when children found out that Alex
had AIDS and they would run when they saw him coming near.
Bowers believes that children aren’t told what they should know about HIV and
AIDS because there are many other issues people face when explaining the
disease. Issues like gay men, prostitutes and drug-users. Bowers has spoken to
people both young and old who do not understand HIV/AIDS. He believes that the
reason many children remain uneducated is because the people who should be
telling them about the diseases are afraid or uneducated themselves.
“We can’t tell people drug addiction is a bad thing, just don’t do it with no
explanation,” says Bowers. HIV/AIDS has to be explained and children want
questions answered. Questions like how soon will a person who has AIDS/HIV die?
People often conceive that death soon follows a HIV diagnosis, with over 45
years of living with HIV/AIDS between the two Bowers and Alex Cory have put that
myth to rest.
This is not to say that a person can contract HIV and continue living a
significant life span without assistance. There has been no such reported case.
HIV/AIDS patients receive life-saving medications and treatments to withstand
the HIV and AIDS.
Alex Cory currently takes 12 pills a day. He recalls a time he once was taking
40 pills twice a day.
The HIV and AIDS medications that have helped preserve the lives of people like
Bowers and Cory living with the disease are not immediately available to all.
This is a major concern of Bowers, last year The New York Times reported that
350 people in South Carolina were on a waiting list for HIV/AIDS life-saving
drugs. This year that list has risen to 500. North Carolina reportedly once had
a waiting list of more than 800. There is no waiting list in California, but
because we have no waiting list there is what some might call a penalty for a
good standing. According to President Bush’s budget new federal resources for
HIV/AIDS will not be available to states without a waiting list, states like
California.
An estimated cost for HIV/AIDS therapy and treatment can range from $10,000 to
$14,000 plus per year per person for outpatient medication, meaning the amount
doesn’t include medicine received during hospital stays. Government assisted
insurance such as Medicaid is available for people diagnosed with HIV/AIDS.
Bowers is a recipient of Medicaid, and says that he would not be able to afford
the medication or treatment without their help. Currently Bowers’ daily
medication consists of 14 pills his peak was 65 pills daily in the late ‘90s.
The total cost for his current medication is roughly $3,000 per month he doesn’t
pay that amount only a co-payment or deductible which is a fraction of the total
cost.
Treatment has shown great strides for HIV/AIDS patients, but the concerns
throughout the HIV/AIDS community are whether these medications are available to
the people who need them. People with HIV/AIDS who have tried existing
medications which fail to work for them will be offered a new drug called Fuzeon
awaiting FDA approval and has a price tag of $20,000 per year.
Fuzeon is only
one medication, the combination of all medication for an average AIDS/HIV
patient plus adding Fuezon to a patients list would more than double that total.
Insurance companies usually pay for most HIV/AIDS treatments but uninsured
people face a difficult road. Data from the United Nations program on AIDS
reported, globally, there were 33.2 million people living with the disease in
2007 and a total of 2.1 million
AIDS-related deaths in that same year.
Arguably the biggest concern among the
HIV/AIDS community is the quest for a
cure. Although Bowers appreciates the great strides the medical community has
made with HIV/AIDS medication, he questions why there hasn’t been more progress
towards a cure. Since the first case of AIDS in the U.S. was reported in 1981
the epidemic has grown rapidly. According to the Department of Health and Human
Services Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, a revised 2007 count of the
total number of HIV/AIDS cases in the U.S. totals approximately one million.
Bowers believes that a cure lays in the social aspects of human beings meaning
that we need to understand, tolerate and learn more about one another. We should
strive to be accepting to the differences of others. Knowledge is the key,
people can learn about something they are afraid of only to find out it was not
frightening to begin. He believes that if we as a people make finding a cure a
priority it can happen.
“I’m just someone sharing the human experience; AIDS encompasses so much more then
just a virus,” said Bowers.
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My
husband and I watched 'The Fire Within' last night. It was so
powerful and heartfelt. You are an amazing spirit Bob. You are a
brave 'WARRIOR' and you put up a good fight against HIV/AIDS. I hope
you are doing well today! It's a day at a time. I thank you for the
work you are doing and the hope you instill.
Peace, Good Health and Many, Many Blessings friend,
~Nancy~