Courage
is the first of human qualities because
it is the quality that guarantees all
others.
- Winston Churchill
Jake,
Rebecca and Da Pirate at Camp Heartland
In
2000, thanks to
Wendy and PEP/LA, I spoke
at Crossroads High School in Santa Monica. I
was told that Jake would be in one of the two
classes I was speaking for. Little did I know,
Jake was in the first class I spoke to and was
not comfortable identifying himself as
HIV positive
at the time. I told the teacher if and when
he was ready, to give him my card and I'd be
happy to talk with him at some point. Through
an inspiring twist of events, this young man
came up to me after my second talk and introduced
himself as Jake Glaser and thanked me for speaking.
This was far and away one of the most profound
moments in my life. I just knew that this meeting
was by no means a coincidence in life. Even
more rewarding, was the fact that Jake in the
following couple of weeks had announced to his
class his
sero-status and spoke of his Mom and sister's
passing from AIDS as well. Jake and I exchanged
numbers that day and e-mail and have remained
in contact. However, we had not seen each other
again until this year. (2006) Another fateful
encounter occurred while living here in Madison
in 2004.
Ben Banks who is another
long term
survivor and friend, spoke here at UW-Madison
for World
AIDS Day. Upon telling us he was a spokesperson
for the
Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation,
I asked about Jake and told Ben briefly of our
friendship. I was told that Jake was now working
for his Mom's foundation and speaking Nationally.
I was ecstatic beyond words and so proud of
Jake. I am humbled that I somehow played a small
part in Jake finding his voice and niche' in
the fight against HIV/AIDS. In yet another amazing
turn of events, my dear friend and Producer
of
The Fire Within,
Leanne Whitney participated in
this year's
AIDS Walk Africa. I asked her if she had
seen Jake. They indeed had spent time together
on the walk and formed an amazing bond. Now,
I was blown away at what a small world it truly
is. Learning from Ben that Jake had relocated
back to Los Angeles I felt the time was close
for our reunion. I called and asked if he'd
be willing to surprise Candice (she was instrumental
in our original connection) and speak with me
at
Crossroads High School in Santa Monica,
California. Although it wasn't quite the surprise
we had planned, as Candice saw Jake skateboarding
before I got there, we indeed spoke briefly
together for Madeleine's class. It was an honor
like no other to have Jake tell a portion of
his story and then introduce me to the students.
That weekend my good friend's Erin and Scott
and me met with Jake for a day in Santa Monica
to take in
Ashes and Snow
and some good grub at the Cheesecake Factory
in Marina Del Rey. I am thrilled to have had
this story come full circle. Over the course
of the last five years, our life paths have
taken us down many roads and the reunion was
that much better. Jake is a most remarkable
and blessed young man. Now 21, he has lived
a life not for the faint at heart. Jake has
overcome so much adversity in his young life
including losing his Mother and Sister while
dealing with his own diagnosis at birth as HIV
positive. Despite it all, Jake has survived
and transpired into an amazingly vibrant, diverse
and healthy young man. Jake is continuing a
brilliant legacy, in his own style of course,
that his Mom Elizabeth did so very well and
with an immense amount of passion and conviction.
Jake travels the globe to speak on behalf of
Pediatric AIDS. This August (2006) Jake
and I arranged for him to visit
Camp Heartland for the first time. It was
incredible sharing the time with him as well
as introducing to camp staff and 'face
to face,' friends of mine on onetoughpirate.com
to one another! Thank you Jake for your
friendship and support! I'm indeed honored and
blessed to call you my friend.
Friends Jake Glaser,
Kalee Garland and Da Pirate
showin how we survivors do! We have a combined 67 years of living with
HIV/AIDS!
Malibu, California-2006
Malibu, California-August,
2006
With Jake, Becca,
Rey, Kalee and Joel Goldman at Camp Heartland
Thank you so much my friends!
Photo 1:
Jake and Da Pirate chowin at da Cheesecake Factory
in Marina Del Rey, CA
Photo 2:
Fat and happy with friends
Erin, Scott
and Jake
Photo 3:
Jake, Candice and Da Pirate at Crossroads High
School-March, 2006
“At such moments, you realize that you and the other
are, in fact, one. It's a big realization. Survival
is the second law of life. The first is that we
are all one.”
~Joseph
Campbell
Jake,
Da Pirate and
Scott
throwin em up in Santa Monica, California-2006
Jake on Rachel Ray part one
Jake on the Early
Show
Jake on Rachel Ray
part two
More links
to news and stories about Jake:
Jake
Glaser shares hope with an HIV-positive
youth on the 2006 AIDS Walk Africa.
Learn more