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I was at your talk at the pharmacy school and I'm glad I went.  Your talk was very uplifting, your optimism is refreshing.  You have a powerful message and you deliver it with conviction.  It is easy to say that I will never forget what you said yesterday.  Thank you for coming to the school and spending an hour of your time with all of us! Oh, did you ever think of writing a book about your experience??  Talk to you later, pirate!

~ Lisa
 
Youth HIV/AIDS educator Bob Bowers was a guest speaker for World AIDS Day events at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. Thank you to ALL for your generosity of spirit!
 
HIV/AIDS education with today's youth is so important! In the United States, half of all new HIV infections are believed to occur in people under the age of 25.
 

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I must say your story is so powerful I have never known anyone with HIV... I think you are a blessing to this world... God bless your voice and your image because like I said it is so powerful, I must admit I clicked on your page because I was like wow he is cute
then when I hit your website it really hit home for me because I would never have assumed that you were HIV positive and then I read how you attained the disease and thought what if that was me. It was one of those Wow moments...
Thank you for that moment. ~ Megan
 

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In 2004, African American youth were disproportionately affected by HIV infection, accounting for 55% of all HIV infections reported among persons aged 13–24

 

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You know I was just looking at your MySpace profile and I think its awesome what you are doing. I could NOT believe you were able to have HIV for 20 years I didn't figure you to be much older then 25. You are a true inspiration and give people hope even people who are not fighting a disease, because when someone is that passionate about a topic it makes other people want to get involved. You are someone who is living to make a difference, and your heroism will prevail. Thanks, you have a unique quality and I support that.

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I hope I am not being to forward in e-mailing you.....but.....I just wanted to tell you that your site brought both tears to my eyes, chills to my skin, and peace to my heart. I have not been directly affected by AIDS on a personal level, however, being  a nurse my final goal is to be involved in the fight for research and a cure. I hope that it didn't bother you  me e-mailing you, but it was kind of laid on my heart, I never look at peoples website, but something told me to check yours out. I have been directly affected by cancer several times which is another type of research I'd like to do, but I feel like the Lord is pushing me to work with HIV/AIDS patients and I'm not really sure why. And I love your saying Compassion is our cure......b/c it is the truth in this world through and through. Sorry, if I bothered you in anyway, I just really wanted to say I think it's awesome what you are doing, and I wish more people would be on the proactive side of this fight. Sincerely, Erin
 
 

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Ahoy mate, you are a good soldier but take care of yourself. You doing a mighty fine job getting the word out.

Love ya,
Darrel
 
You cool as hell Bob. come back and visit us!

~ Brendan

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I have been doing youth HIV/AIDS prevention through education in schools, colleges, universities and jails for
more than a decade. I am eternally grateful to all who have blessed my incredible journey.
Your words of love and support are deeply appreciated! !
You give me great hope, purpose and passion!


Namaste, Bob Bowers a.k.a. Da Pirate

 

Hi there,

I happened upon your site quite by accident, when the Google crawler identified one of your postings as meeting my search criteria (The AIDS Network). I read your story with interest – while I see people and hear stories every day, the words are never any less powerful. I’m both inspired and heart-broken each time - it’s that raw emotion that keeps me doing what I do.

Congratulations to you for walking the walk...may you continue to educate and inspire those in your community..both locally and globally. Thank you for sharing your story.


Kindest regards,
Lisa-Marie


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You are one great guy! Showing the world that there is no difference to live like the next guy. I am glad I found your profiles. Thanks Bob you are the rain in the arid desert world of AIDS. RIGHT ON ONE TOUGH PIRATE!

Thanks,
Lydia


Dear Bob,

Fantastic to see your work on this most important of issues. I hope it continues well.

I am reminded of all of the issues around AIDS n HIV and that here in Australia the whole shebang has dropped off the radar. Seeing all the great work you do in visiting schools, I am also reminded that I have to keep my own two sons, 15 and 19, informed across all the issues related to this and the temptations put in the path of youth in general, as well as to promote acceptance and awareness as broadly as possibly.

So, all up, that's quite amazing as to where the internet can lead you, and thanks for your great example. "Keep on keeping on, mate!" As we say here in Oz!

regards,
Walter


Never surrender my friend. Yip Mann once said "Martial Arts is more than a system of fighting, it is a system of thought because some of your opponents will be More than Men. We all have demons to fight. We call these demons Anger, Hatred and Fear. If we do not conquer them a Life of a Thousand Years can be a Tragedy, but if we do a Life of a Single Day can be a Triumph." Thank you for your friendship and never stop the fight.

~David


As per usual, you drive me everyday to wake up and face the day with!!! a smile. I love that you not only care about the AIDS epidemic here in the states, but abroad as well. You know allllllll about my son, Africa, and my hopes and wishes to get there and change. An entire generation lost...let's not let that happen again. You are the greatest.
XOXO Katey


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Your strength and courage is a inspiration to all! I just admire and love you for being so outspoken and involved. God Bless my good friend, God Bless!

Mae and little dan


 


H
ello my new friend!
you are definitely one tough pirate...and a wonderful inspiration to me and many others, it is truly an honor to have you as a friend! stay strong and best wishes to you always

xo~cobina~xo


Thank you Bob...I want to commend & thank you on all of the dedication and hard work that you've put forth in educating an ignorant world. You're truly a man who can make things happen and an important asset to us all in this fight against HIV/AIDS.

~Mike


Thank you for being out there and doing such a good thing. God is so pleased with people who do such good things...you are one of my true heroes...that your life can touch so many...

Much love
Angellyn


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"
YOU MY FRIEND - ARE A FORCE OF POWER..A RAW VISCERAL NERVE - OF BEAUTY... DEFINED BY INTELLIGENCE AND MOST OF ALL HEART...."

MY LOVE TO YOU,
~KIM


Thank you for all you do!
The world is a smarter and stronger place .
Be strong FIGHT ON and remember you are loved.


All I can say is WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.

I listened to the show and was REALLLLLLLLLLy impressed, scared, shocked, over whelmed, blessed and touched after hearing it. I laughed, cried, laughed some more, cried A LOT more and felt so completely BLESSED to have met such a TRULY amazing and BEAUTIFULLY LOVED and Touched man with a heart of gold and a soul blessed by ten thousand Angels and more that are watching over you and singing down your praises. After listening to the radio show I am left feeling all mushy and sad for the things that you have had to endure in your life, but i fell enlightened because I now know that YOU are one of the strongest and most blessed people I know! You Mr BOB are a ROCK STAR and I am so truly blessed that our paths crossed and you are a friend in my life. I'm thankful and honored each and everyday that YOU are a part of my life. You will ALWAYS have a very special place in my heart!!!!!! You have made me rethink how very precious life is.......... I walk in the Susan G Koman Breast Cancer walk every year (3 day 60 miles) to help find research for the cure for breast cancer......... I think I have now found another new passion in my life. I would also like to start devoting my time to help in the fight against HIV/AIDS.....I'm going to look in my community and see what I can find. :)........You my friend inspire me to be a better person.......so when I grow up I want to be JUST like you! I would LOOOOOOOOOVE to get a copy of your video....... to show to my kids and their friends.  get my new tat "Carpe Diem" on my wrist on Tuesday I will send you a picture when it's done.........

Much love to ya
~Lisa


There is no one I know so brave, courageous, inspiring, loving and giving as you, Bob. Thank you for your words, friendship and website. You mean very much to me.

Thank you,
~Nicolle


Congrats on truly living your life. Most humans with out a disease are not in the moment! You on the other hand are doing what we were made to do...Simply go with the flow of our life! No matter what happens or how we feel, all we can do is try. That's it. You know I'm a fighter; we sponsor many UFC fighters who I know very well. You're tougher than all of them Pirate tattoos full sleeves tribal flames wind bars skulls spider websput together! Straight up! Keep going. Just keep going. If there ever comes a time when you feel scared, relax; always remember none of us ever asked to be born. Not I or you or anyone. We were all chosen. That means what ever happens in our life is always a part of what's been chosen even if we are the sum of our choices. The fact that we have been chosen means all of our choices are for the life that lives including our own. The only thing we leave behind is our influences, our character, our actions that affected those lives around us. At the end of the day what else matters? I can only hope to touch, help and educate as many people as you have my friend. Everyone has a life time that is ticking, everyone. The best way that we can show our appreciation for our life is by the way we treat each other. In my opinion you are doing what most humans in the world are not. I respect you more than you really know man. Take care Brother and keep checkin in with me as I will do the same.

Best Wishes,
Steve Scordel

LEARN, LAUGH, LOVE, LIVE.


You should be proud of those kids and wow a billboard!!! Most of all I believe you should be proud of yourself!! You are truly an amazing person and touch my heart. I will never ever forget when Chris told me your story. I will always be blown away by the strength you have. Your an amazing person bob. May the angels who have watched over my crazy ass wayyyyyyyy too many times watch over you as well

~Heather


My friend. I'm so happy with your work man, just keep the fire burnin. We all know that this thing is for us all. If u r not infected u r affected. Thanx

~ Ignatius


Of course we are in the fight against AIDS, your strength is but one of the valuable tools that helps to stir up the fuel needed to continue that battle. Great blessings, love and accomplishments to come your way my true and trusted friend.

Hugs,
Mae and little dan


AIDS activist Bob Bowers in POZ Magazine-Bob is a long-term AIDS survivor, youth HIV/AIDS educator & advocate-Madison, Wisconsin-United States


I
can't believe i stumbled onto your page - i remember when i saw you on the cover of poz - u truly r amazing.... i do a lot of work with golden rainbow... they are on my top friend page check them out when you have a minute.... you r awesome!!!! have a great weekend!!!!!!

 

 


Ya know all the things you're doing is awesome, you're like everything anybody could ever want in a friend; you don't judge and you're there for anybody at anytime. I'd like to say thanks for coming to speak with us cause I would have never met you in the first place.(THANK GOD YOU DID!!) cause your so fricken awesome man words can't describe! I'll keep in touch... later

~Grant


You are a beautiful man inside and out. May you always be abundantly blessed with good health and love always always. It is honor to know you my friend.

Hugs, Glen


tattoos-wench spider webs full sleeves cross kanji skullsBob, I just love how you came, and by the looks of it, conquered the school in more ways than one. :-) Your shocking, yet down-to-earth way of presenting really hit home. You have made a lasting impression, and have encouraged several to join you in your fight in HIV awareness and education. Thank you for opening yourself to our students and staff. Oh, and Teresa is a gem, but of course, you already knew that.


~ Amy


Hey There!! I am in complete awe over you and your story...I took some time and went on your site www.hivictorious.org and was completely blown away...the tears are welling up in my eyes as I am sending you this....I am so overcome with emotion from the video I saw I couldn't breathe I had to go outside to get air and compose myself...you have truly changed me regarding this disease that we fight everyday...I am so honored to know you and stand with you in the fight for HIV/AIDS...may God bless you and keep you in perfect peace...I will never be the same...your wife is an inspiration as well...you are very blessed to have such a wonderful person beside you...I am in complete awe...I just cannot help how I feel from your story...it is a great honor to have you as my friend!!!........Always, Mimi


You are truly an inspirational person not just to me but to thousands of people. I know lots of people with HIV and one person who is a close relative to me who has battled it and is still to this day walking and healthy as ever. My heroes are you and everyone who has never let themselves down. I don't have HIV but I truly support and advocate about it. Thanks for being my hero!! :) I mean that from the bottom of my heart and hope someday I will have the honor to meet you face to face and tell you what an impact you have in my life and the people who believe in you and believe in themselves to fight the fight! Thanks for everything!


I wanted to congratulate you on your journey ...living with HIV... you are truly my inspiration ... I think that people often underestimate us... I just wanted to let you know that I am applauding your efforts, your honesty and your fight...I am so grateful to call you my friend... you have touched my heart and opened my eyes...Your openness has shifted my life for the better and you are my hero...Robert


Hey i was just checking out your web site and you are a total inspiration.. i think that you have found courage that most people never find... keep up the awareness it is great...


There could be no finer example of a warrior than yourself....your life has such amazing value and I am humbled by your example....the honor is all mine....

Peace love light_Robert


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Bob-

Came across your story recently...and I have to stay I love the attitude. Stay Strong, Stay in the Fight, and Rock on. Wish more would follow your suit and battle on.

Happy Weekend- Chris


 


The honor is all mine, Pirate. What a tough, intelligent, compassionate and beautiful warrior you are. mad respect to you!!!
always,
xoxo...

~Cameron


You are truly an inspiration and I am honored to be your friend.
I am truly blessed to get to know true fighters like yourself who give me a reason to keep on truckin' and fighting for what I believe in!!!


Carpe Diem tattoos flames water spirit soul razor seven kanji fire dice pirates tatsHi! I just wanted to say what an inspiration you are. I haven't even seen your documentary yet, but just from what I've read on your page makes me want to come up there and give you a big hug! You show us what can be accomplished if you put your mind to it and don't give up. I remember what it was like in my 20's losing many friends and feeling so helpless against AIDS. Knowing you went through the same since those days and still came out on top gives me great hope for the future. Beating it long term can be done! So thank you for all you do!! Hope this birthday is an excellent one and that you know how much you are loved!

Cody

PS: Great tats btw!


It's truly an honor to become a friend! Thank you for your tireless effort and commitment to raising awareness and opening up a can o' whoopass on HIV/AIDS! You have my support, Mate!!.

Respectfully,
~kimmie



It's a pleasure too meet u. U are a Pirate u treasure life an life is your treasure and your protecting it.
xo
peace
your new bro
Mantis


ANOTHER YEAR OF VICTORY! WOO-HOO!!!

(sung breathy, like Marilyn Monroe.........)

Happy Birthday........to YOU
hAPPY birthday......to you!
Happy Birthday............Mr. Bowers!
Happy birthday to you!!
and many, many, MANY more!

You look MAHVELOUS, DAHLING! I hope you are doing well! Such an amazing spirit & so filled with life. You are always an inspiration to me. = )

xoxo
Namaste!

Heather


Bob and Teresa BowersI think the world just needs more nice people...and you are one...you know, suffering and pain develop patience and perseverance...and often people who have experienced such things are the nicest ones...it can go either way...it makes one be very empathetic to others...or...they can take the low road and become mean and ugly inside...when I was a nurse, I certainly experienced lots of those too...but I can see that all you have been through in this life has made you a great person...understanding and nice...I appreciate your friendship very much...have a wonderful day and time..

I will come and visit tomorrow and leave a Birthday message...have a very lovely day..

Love,
Angellyn


You're my new pirate lol God bless and may your strength serve as proof that we can rise above all circumstances You are a true hero


Bobby you are an amazing force on this planet... And I mean this with all sincerity-You bless my heart more than you will ever know. Your words and kindness have lifted me many a day- I'm Sending you a great big hug-- Are you ready? Okay here it comes...Hold on tight! ;)

Love and blessings to you always my dearest friend, Donna


Hey Bob,

I just wanted to say thank you so damn much for the speech at school today it really meant allot to me and helped me appreciate the meaning of life. So at least you no you have changed one persons point of view on life and i am sure thousands of more.

-christian aka (the kid who screams before he dunks peace and god bless ya buddy!)


I'm from JMM High School and you came to talk to our class today. I just wanna say that YOU FUCKING ROCK. You have totally inspired me. Thanks man!!!

~ Brenna


Bob BowersMy friend! Man, what a gift it is to hear from you. I miss you a ton and I thought of you as I was inked up a few weeks ago ; ) How is everything been going in Madison? I am still blown away by the What If It Were You? project. Are you going to do it again next year? Keep in touch, and keep doing what you do best (putting them fists up and gracing the world with knowledge and light!).


Thank you so much for all you do! Education is key and I am sure you know there are still millions of people who think AIDS wont touch them. My very dear friend died from AIDS in 1993 and until the day I die I will fight for those that are still among us! Take care!"

~ Jeri


I admire u, & I think what u are doing 4 other people is very courageous!! We need more people like u in the world!! I love ur ink as well!! =)

~Jessica~ xo


It is our sincere feeling that "we" are the lucky ones to have such a fighter among us!

As we fight together against this disease that afflicts so many - from Men, Women and Children; globally as well as locally.

It is our duty as a civilization to protect and help those in need, to over come HIV/AIDS without judgmental views of any kind but to reach out and give support.

Thank you OTP and God Bless you highly!

Mae and little dan
Founders - WolfLair Pediatric AIDS


Thank you so much for the response.
You are my new pirate lol God bless and may your strength serve as proof that we can rise above all circumstances You are a true hero


I appreciate positive role models when it comes to being HIV+. The Pirate is a symbol of strength and rebellion, and these are the character traits necessary to live with HIV. Together, timbers will shiver for certain.

~ Douglas P.


When I think life is giving me a bad deal man, a voice speaks somewhere in the back of my mind and says "never surrender". That voice was never there until a few months ago. I've been blessed no doubt, but its souls like u that drive me. I will never f@cking surrender. You got "it". Hard to explain "it". You have "it", lucky, worked for it, God gave "it", thanks for inspiring so many brother. A wise person once told me " A TRUE FRIEND IS SOMEONE WHO REACHES FOR YOUR HAND BUT TOUCHES YOUR HEART"... Never surrender braa"


Bob Bowers AIDS Activist, youth HIV/AIDS educator and long-term AIDS survivor-Madison, Wisconsin-United StatesI adore you! You are so hardcore, you care so much and have a pure drive that we should all be so lucky to have. Thank you for continually sharing and showing how far a reach your work has extended. Anyone who believes one person can't make a difference has never truly tried to make a difference. Your work has inspired many, and theirs in turn has inspired others. Once you start that ball rolling, it's hard to curtail the momentum.

Keep it going. Keep fighting and know that you are just absolutely adored!

-Jen Jordan


You're a fuckin inspiration man! I thought I had problems! Problems pale in comparison dude!

Keep up the fight!

~ Donnie


Wow....where do I start! You came to Portland Community College today and I was amazed by your story. Thank you so much for sharing and wow is really all I can say. I love that you really look at the positives of life even though life can be a complete bitch and bring you down. I'm fortunate enough to see things for how they can be and realize that life happens and you deal the best with what you've got! I still don't know what to say, I've never sat and listened to someone speak with as much passion and intensity about something as you did today! I guess for now all I can say is that I'm totally interested in getting involved some how, and to say THANK YOU!! ~Amanda


Happy Holidays and thank you for accepting and becoming my friend. Just wanted to tell you Bob Bowers has been living with HIV/AIDS for 26 yearshow much I admire you and the work you do. I bow to you with great respect and am so thankful you are who you are and do what you do. I pray next years will be the year a cure is found. The courage and hope you give from your heart is as important as everything else. Thank you again for all you do and I am sending you some warm hold you tight heart sent hugs and a soft kiss for each side of your charming face. Always your friend and supporter.

~Mary


Hey there, found you on GoodSearch today as the featured site... went to the site, found your MySpace page. Thanks so much for doing what you do. VERY important. I think many people feel they don't know anyone who has HIV/AIDS. I'm guessing many people actually DO know someone affected by it... they just don't know that they know someone. People are so scared still that it's not typically talked about openly. It needs to be talked about. I have a friend who's been living with AIDS for over a decade now. He'll tell anyone who asks, he doesn't lie about it, but he doesn't necessarily advertise it either. Too much stigma, too much at risk for him to lose. Things must change. Thank you so much for your site and for doing what you do. It's so important to educate the public. You're awesome!

Best wishes to you,
Kristina


Bob , you are a special individual and I have drawn inspiration from your saga, it is a saga , because stories end and yours will continue. I pray that people like us can make a difference in the cold ignorant world we live in, Good People are out there but their indifference is rampant. Without '' saints '' to inspire, the world will expire. Bob , fight on and Fight strong , I will stand beside ya any day.

~ Gary


I just recently started reading ur website. I was deeply moved by ur life. I would not wish it on anyone. I applaud you though. You have faced it head on n made something out of it that Bob Bowers and Vanessa Van Dusenno one should have to go through! Some people whine n complain about the cards their dealt instead u have taken something bad n made it into a quest to tell others. I wish u many more years of life (without pain). With that I am now going to go kiss my daughter n tell for the 100th time today how much I love her. Thx u for sharing ur life so others may learn from it!
~ Jewels


Dearest Bob, I just wanted to let you know how honored I am to have met you, and am continually inspired, with every moment, by your strength, passion, sincerity, kindness, and positive outlook on all things. For living your truth, with compassion, and a raised fist. You're amazing.... Namaste my dear friend, ~ Vicki


Hey what's up my name is Seville and i go to M.A.S.H. and you came to talk to us today and I was the one who yelled out human papiloma virus and i know you hear this a lot but you had a big impact on me i never thought that someone with aids would be as happy as you are and that there was more to it than what i thought so i just wanted to say thanks you were a big influence on me thanks.


Love the new ink! Hope you're having a good weekend. Thanks again for doing all you do to educate. You are an example of what one person can do when they are determined enough.


My brother was born w/ HIV he contracted it from my mother. But for you to have contracted it the way you did and still be a survivor... That's amazing you give other people hope because its not the end of the world just because you make one mistake doesn't mean sit on your ass give up and pout about it means you learned your lesson and told yourself that you wanted to lead a better life you told yourself you will become a survivor and that my friend takes a lot of courage b/c i know what it feels like to give up hope and how hard it is to maintain a stable frame of mind.. You have will power and courage and I am happy that
you are my friend.. luv ya lots, JANEA


Bob Bowers and Shelley WhittetThank you for everything you are to the world, and everything you are to me. It is so amazing to have my heroes touch me in such a close way. You are amazing. Such a funny, honest, dedicated, hardworking, kind, goofy, loving, strong, cool guy. It was great to spend the weekend and road trip with you, and I'm excited to hang out with you more. :) SO MUCH LOVE...

XOXO, Shell


I'm so proud and impressed with the work you do Bob. I'm so happy knowing there's people like you out there fighting for the people against the horrible machine. I love you and all you do (including the SHOCKER).

Love- Scott Hart


Hi Bob!

A few of the Youth Retreat participants have called me to chat after they left and all of them had so much to say about your movie and your talk. It really moved everyone. Thanks again for providing that safe space and being so open and honest!

Love you!

Sarah M.


Thank you Bob - you are forever my inspiration and motivation to be and do my best...

~ Erin H.


I just wanna say bravo.. I loved your page.. your awesome for speaking out.. may you be blessed the rest of your days =)

* Penny


spider web elbows tattoos Da Pirate I'm so glad you're a part of the aids ride! It just wouldn't be the same without you!!!!

ROCK ON PIRATE!!!

~ Spanks

I actually was sitting here feeling a bit sorry for my self when I saw your website.  As I am trying to type this thru teary eyes, I feel guilty for my own good health.  I hope this finds you in as good health as can be expected, whatever it may be....you are truly a man I can say I admire.  You make me look at myself and want to be a better woman/mother for my daughter.  Thank you.....

Shelly


I must say that your story, the videos, the website...seeing you & your wife talk about the trials and your love for one another... all of it deeply touched my heart. It opened my eyes to a need that should be openly talked about and I just felt like I should THANK YOU! **HUG** You take care and I will pass the message on to my family & friends. Thanks again. You really are an inspiration to me.

Sincerely,
Amy



Bob Bowers and Della HaugenHi, you spoke at my school yesterday and i give you props for fighting on. and when you said if you could go back and change things you wouldn't, it made me realize that everything happens for a reason and our actions reflect on how strong we are as human beings. i just want to say thank you and stay strong.
 


Thank you for all the amazingly wonderful things you do!

~ Stacy S.


I just want to let you know i think what you're doing is amazing. My father has HIV from the mid 80's but my Uncle (his brother) died in '90. Unfortunately they shared a needle. And my aunt, my uncles wife, is surviving it too. I think you have an amazing attitude and that helps a lot.


..::*~Jess~*::..


Bob,

Thank you very much for your summary of our visits with Curt and Katie as well as the photo. In addition, your kind words and feedback regarding my first advocacy work is also very much appreciated. I would like to, in turn, express my sincere appreciation of your leadership with ONE in the Bob Bowers HIV AIDS prevention education awareness HIVictoriousMadison area as well as your gentle, clear and confident leadership around the preparation for and actual advocacy work with Ms. Baldwin's and Mr. Feingold's office. Your heartfelt expression and enduring commitment to the welfare and evolution of all of humanity is refreshing conveyed in way that others feel on multiple levels of their being. Which I believe ultimately leads to an expansion of there consciousness, mind, heart, and soul to include a wider circle of care and concern. You are to be acknowledged for this unique ability and your willingness to act with it, and to see you advocate while simultaneously facilitating the unfolding of what is best and most true in yourself and others. Noble, mindful, and altruistic. Your are a model of what is possible. I look forward to collaborating again, in the future. All the best and carry on!!

~ Scott


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Bob Bowers and Christine Bellport NBC Madison You came to my school today and I took pictures with you. I just wanted to say you are an amazing inspiration to me and million of other people all around the world. Thank you so much. I really do appreciate what you're doing. It's not often that a public speaker, for lack of a better word, "speaks to me." Stay strong, it's a fight and I'm joining you!!!

~Briana
:):)


Uncle Gruncle!! Soooo cool! I wish we lived closer so we could come to all these events!
I am soooo proud of you and you are just so giving, outgoing and ambitious!

i love ya


Bob,

You are amazing. I can’t tell you how fortunate AIDS Network is to have your help and commitment to the events they do. Thank you for getting my dumb ass up more hills than I care to remember, thank you for your smile and cheer at the pit stops, thank you for reminding me what this is all about and last (but most certainly not least) thank you for dancing with me. You got some MOVES, my friend :)

You’re pictures are great!
Looking forward to riding with you next year, though guy!
http://www.onetoughpirate.com
~j


Bob Bowers was by far one of the most amazing speakers I have ever heard in my life. No words can tattoos sleeves color flames water waves wind bars spider webs elbowdescribe the respect I have for him, and how much I look up to him. My sister went to Africa and worked in an orphanage. When she arrived back home again, and I heard her stories of interacting with kids who have been diagnosed with HIV/AIDS, I wanted to go back or do something to help so badly. Now that I have heard Mr. Bowers speak, and heard his stories, that urge is even worse. I want to do as much as I can to help. I can guarantee that I will go home tonight after school and the first thing I will do is visit his website and find out what I can do to help. It amazes me how high his spirits are in times like these and his perseverance and his hopefulness. I especially like how he is willing to share his story with people like me and inform us so that we become aware. I learned many things from Bob.

~Jennifer B.


Bob, you were just the cutest thing when we were in grade school and have grown to be a handsome, very driven man. I applaud all that you do and wish you nothing but the best and may you continue to stay strong. Most people don't have near the drive or discipline, let alone energy that you appear to have. You are truly an amazing man. My hat is off to you my friend, you are truly an ANGEL and a gift to this earth and the life of everyone you come in contact with. Take care of yourself.

~Sheila


i think that that what  you are doing is awesome you have turned your illness into something positive to benefit others around you and that is very impressive i wish you well in your travels and helping of others    

sincerely, betti


Bob Bowers and Della Haugen on the wisconsin aids rideHey! I really enjoyed the webpage. I had a friend back home that had HIV/AIDS for 10 years. She passed away this past November. I use to sit with her for hours hearing her begging to die. How she didn't want to live anymore. She couldn't handle it. I wish I would have known you then. Maybe you could have rubbed off on her a little. Anyways I know I just met you but if there is ever anything you need let me know. I will do whatever I can. Hope to see you soon.

~Paula


I respect your courage to be able to stand in front of a crowd of people and talk about HIV/AIDS
~Stephanie H.


It was truly a pleasure to meet you Bob. I'm invigorated to work harder in preventing this disease. Your speech was uplifting and moving. Thank you. Next time you are down visiting us, I'll take you and Teresa sailing.

Love, Jimmy


hey bob,

phoenix back piece tattoos with flames

Da Pirate's Phoenix with flames back piece tattoo

first off, i wanted to thank you for coming into our class on tuesday. you did a damn fine job. through watching The Fire Within and talking to you, i want you to know that your efforts are certainly not in vain. i embraced much knowledge from your video and appearance. and when speaking to my classmates, i know they did as well. i now have a far more stable foundation on the topic of AIDS/HIV. it is very brave of you to be as active and outgoing about a such a social taboo, but thankfully you are doing a fantastic job of breaking barriers and clearing the fog about AIDS. I credit you for your sincere compassion for those you meet, and i wish you the same in return. see you around, kyle
 


Bob you lifted my spirits in ways that no one has done before! Bless you for that! You have a unique gift with your words and that is very powerful! I just wanted to give you a humble thank you and I hope to see you and Teresa in our town really soon!!!

Love,
Millie Andreasen


Bob,

From what I have been reading in your newsletters, you have been one BUSY pirate!   ; )  Your Camp Heartland experience sounded amazing.  I'm so glad you're in an area now where you can devote more time and attention to your passion of educating people and spreading the word.  I recently subscribed to Netflix and ordered your movie to watch.  My 14-yr old son & I watched it last night.  I believe it had a strong impact on him........ I'll also mention it to my friends that I have referred to your website in the past. I think what you're doing is great, and the inspiration, hope, and encouragement you provide to countless others (those with AND without the disease) is priceless.  So I just wanted to let you know how much I admire & respect the work you do and the message you send. Your friend, Heather


Bob-

Thanks so much for speaking at the medical school. It was truly an awesome experience. Your story is truly inspirational, and really reminded be about what really counts in life, and the importance of persistence and dedication. I think you did an excellent job both showing that a life with HIV is still a life worth living and also encouraging all of us to reexamine our responses to the challenges we face in life. I think we have a long way to go with regard to increasing empathy and understanding regarding HIV/AIDS, but I think you are doing an amazing job. For people who are ignorant about the virus and disease, you provide a face and an understanding. For people who view HIV as a death sentence, you help redefine it as a chronic infection/disease. For those who view it as a homosexual disease or "curse from god", you straight up shatter those perceptions. I loved how upfront and honest you were with all of us, regarding the challenges you've faced, from misconceptions and shithead doctors to the very real and physical side effects of medicines. Your visit was one of the most moving talks of the year, and I hope that you come to visit next year, and maybe speak to students at other medical schools, too. Yours is a message that the public desperately needs to hear.
Thanks!

Sam Gross
UW Medical Student


Bob,
 
You inspire me.
Your writing is so moving.
You are really doing great work on this planet.
 
Lots of love,
Mickie


You continue to make every moment count and be an inspiration to everyone who knows you.

~Debbie


Dear Pirate---

I don't know your first name so I'll just say "pirate" for now.  Just want to let you know that your website is just great.  I haven't viewed it all---just a portion---but I so want to congratulate you on both the website and surviving AIDS/HIV for 21 years!!! That's truly admirable, mixed with a huge dose of Grace.
 

I'm 47 years old, have dealt with HIV my whole adult life---since 1981 at the age of 24, being a registered nurse and living in San Francisco where I took care of the 1st known HIV patient from the 4 men diagnosed in California of that year.
 
Having lived in San Francisco from 81-83, I experienced many friends and colleagues become infected, and for a very long time, I feared it myself.  Although I am HIV negative, I feel I live with the disease in a way.....it's become a big part of my life, or shall I say, a very important one.
 
Just read your "I cannot begin to tell you..." letter and man is that ever powerful!  I felt every word of your letter----very eloquent and well written. Well, I just wanted to touch base with you----let you know as you already do that so many people are out here in the world who really do care---and I am so glad to come across your website and will return to learn more about you and your life.
 
Meanwhile, thanks so much for taking the time and effort to construct such a positive, up-beat website for the world to know you and get a sense of who you are. 
 
I don't know what I can do or say but somehow I want you to know what impact your website has, for that matter, your life must have, on others. 
 
So many people I know who live long lives unchallenged and unthreatened by illness go through life with little quality, always forgetting what's important, what matters.  If nothing else, you've had that in perspective, albeit the hard way, these past 21 years, which has forced you to live life to the full----even the bad or down parts.

Greetings from the MIddle East---and keep on keeping on!
~Mark
 

Dear Mr. Bowers,

After I read your mini biography in the WSJ, I felt compelled to check out your website. I felt your story was one of true inspiration that needed to be told. Therefore, I wanted to email you just to thank you and praise you for the wonderful work that you do because not only are you breaking down stereotypes, but you're utilizing and employing the power of a negative situation into a very enlightening and influential one. You're showing the world that this condition is not going to win, and just by the work that you do is simply phenomenal and I just thought you deserved to be told that. I do not have AIDS nor can even begin to relate to what you must go through on a daily basis, but I work in the human services field and deal with a lot of individuals who could really use a mentor like yourself. So, keep up good work! P.S. You really look fantastic, especially the pictures of you on the bike. Very nice.

Sincerely, Betty Kuhlman


AIDS activist Bob Bowers-Madison, Wisconsin-United StatesI just wanted to say wussup and see how it's going. . . i think it's really cool that you educate people on AIDS and HIV, I myself don't have it but I do know someone who does and they, even tho they are very ill, still manage to stay strong and look forward towards the future and I just think it's really really cool when people can live with something as life determining as that and still have the strength to move forward and not look back like their past is a bad thing but more like the future can hold all possibilities of a good thing. . . anyway. . . .I just wanted to say hi and keep on keepin on, man. . . . take it easy. .        ~Lucky D.


Bob, What can I say? Your passion is awesome-your impact on these students is incredible-your mission is inspirational! Thanks and much appreciation from all of us!

Hugs!

Wade and all the students in Global Issues


Bob - your note made me a little misty - 453 and no viral load. Wow. You are miraculous. I can't believe that you have now lived over half your life HIV positive. I just want to reach out and give you a hug. I feel bad, sad, mad, glad but most important I feel very proud of you and honored to be your friend. We all go through life trying to make a difference and there is no doubt in my mind that you have made a difference to a lot of people. Your strength and outlook on  life is instilling. I will always be inspired by your determination and will.

Luv ya,
Berp


Dear Bob,

Bob Bowers Rebecca Venn and Kathy TenutaI am sure this is the culmination of three days of highs and lows for you and all the riders. I send long distant hugs and wishes for continuing strength for all your friends here and gone. Never far away...souls caught in the breezes of time...waving to you at unexpected moments.

Much love, Rebecca

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Hi there Bob,

All your work with HIV/AIDS is so important. The message of hope that you send to so many people is so special that when I look at your site I can see the work you put into it!!! Keep up the hard work, but remember that with out you and many like you, the Message of HOPE... So my friend keep yourself strong so that you can keep telling your message of hope to all people living with HIV/AIDS and at the same time your showing other people living with HIV/AIDS how to live with disease of HIV/AIDS...

In the Spirit of Peace,
Rod Michano
Please visit Rod's site:
www.redskyhealing.com


You have been a great inspiration to us man and I just want to tell you to keep on striving. Because it's people like you who help people like us believe that there is a tomorrow. ~J.


dear bob,

lisa molinaro bob bowers da pirate www.onetoughpirate.comyou deserve this. I am taking a meditation decal at Berkeley (a student taught class). yesterday, we were in section, doing a guided meditation outside and our section leader asked us to think of the most beautiful flower we could think of. after picturing the flower in our minds, i chose a calalilly. He then asked us to picture someone that inspires us and that shares their love with us. Multiple people's faces came to my mind but no one seemed just right until you entered into my visualization. Then we were asked to give this beautiful flower to this person that we love so dearly. I know you hear every day that you are a wonderful person, it probably gets tiring...but when i thought of you, without thinking, a smile and tears simultaneously came to my face. You are that powerful and that wonderful, Bob, and I am so lucky to know you!

take care of yourself.

bye
bye
lisa m


Bob,

I applaud your actions.  I'm really glad to see that there are passionate people to take these issues on and fight for solutions.

Sol


Dear Bob,

I think I can safely say that your presence here is equally great and appreciated........so its one of those mutually-satisfying relationships we got going...

~Bob P.


Hi Bob,

My name is Mandy and I have just spent a long time reading thro' ur web pages. Can I just say, that the contents moved me and I just wanted to thank u for sharing ur story, ur photos and ur inspiration. I work as a social worker here in the UK and have worked on a voluntary basis for a number of years with a young man who too, is living with HIV.

Wishing you all that special people deserve,

Mandy


I JUST WANTED TO SAY  .. YOUR WEB  PAGE IS  GREAT!..  U ARE SO BLESSED  .. I WISH AND PRAY  FOR YOUR BATTLE WITH AIDS..  AND YOUR FAITH  WILL HEAL U  AND  THAT  U ARE BLESSED WITH ALL U DESIRE  FOR ALL U DO  FOR PEOPLE WITH AIDS..

Bonni


Hey Bob,

I Just Wanted 2 Send U A Quick E-Mail & Tell U That I Think Ur One Of The Strongest Ppl I've Ever Met In My Life. Dinah's family restaurant food los angelesLike, If I Had AIDS, I Don't Think There's Any Way I'd Be Able 2 Live With It, U Know? I'd Just Be Scared. Maybe It's Because I'm "Ignorant" Because Ignorance Equals Fear But.. I Feel Like I Know Enough About The Virus But It Still Scares Me U Know? I Just Think Ur Cool As Hell 4 Bein As Real As U R. U Probably Hear That A Lot But I Mean It. I Can't Believe How Well U Deal With It.. & I Just Wanted 2 Thank U Again 4 Comin 2 Talk 2 Us.. U Gave Me A Totally Different Aspect Of The Virus.. Keep Ur Head Up

-Mia


hey bob! i just wanted let you know how amazing i think you are. you seem to have such a positive outlook on life even through all of the tough times that you have endured. listening to you speak today really opened my eyes to all of the problems that people with HIV/AIDS face in our society. hearing your story has really inspired me to do more research on AIDS and do all that i can to help out. i am going to participate in the AIDS ride this coming summer because i was so inspired by your story. i just want to thank you for sharing your story with us. it was amazing to actually put a face and a personality behind the virus. you are an extremely amazing person. god bless and keep fighting.


I cannot imagine the horrors Bob had to, and still has to go through even though he may be used to it. Bob really inspired me to do my part for the community because he is doing his...

Katie B.-9th Grade


Bob,

I only heard bits and pieces of your talk wish I would have had more time to hear everything you said. I have made many friends at "Camp Get-Away" and learning a lot more each year that they come to our camp. I am "extremely proud" to lay claim on the fact that until I started, there were a lot of unfound fears (I guess I will call them for lack of anything else). I was told numerous "horror stories" my first year there. I told them they were all scared crack pots. I didn't see anything that I was told. I do see stress, but that comes with the territory. I was accepted by a lot of the ones that were there that year. I am still friends with them and still  making more. The biggest turn-around and change in the attitude of the other staff at the camp was that I started bringing my now 51/2 yr old daughter to aids activism-Bob Bowers-Madison, Wisconsin-United Statescamp to visit with them and this year, I introduced my dog buster to the kids. I got him in feb because of neglect, etc. My boss was a little surprised that the teenagers made me a hat and I still wear it to this day. I could go on and on but I think I am most proud of changing attitudes and opinions at the camp and I truly believe that actions speak louder than words. One main staff person has agreed with me that my allowing my small child to intermingle with these kids has made all the difference in the world. Rissa (my daughter) actually looks for her "friends from Chicago" every year and remembers some of them by name. She has also been accepted and gets t-shirts from them every year. This year was exceptional!!! I am actually going to miss my doctor appointment for my 3 week x-ray on my fractured ankle because too many people were disappointed that Riss, Buster and I would be there for coffee, but had to leave at 9am for x-rays. My friends from Chicago are more important to me than any ol' ex ray (more money for the doc to tell me that things are healing fine".
You are awesome and hope to hear all of your speech sometime.

LUV YA HUNY!

Dawn Rae (Assistant Kitchen Manager at Camp Getaway and beyond)


Hey Bob,

Been meaning to email you since mid May when you sent out a couple of different emails about all of your various projects to say THANKS.  Sorry for the delay, but wanted to make sure you know that I appreciate your work so much.  You do so much and make such a difference for so many people. Keep kickin' ass.  Hope you have a good week!

Melanie Brooks
AIDS Network


I'm just so glad to know that my friends and I got the chance to learn more from your point of view and I'm sure you'll be happy to know that your speech had an affect on us........we have taken a pledge of abstinence :)"


Your websites were very inspirational, you truly have a gift not only in your compassion but also in your insight into the disease that you and so many others in this world live with every day. You are blessed to have such good  friends by your side. So many people don't understand that AIDS is not something you can catch by hugging a friend that has it. Many times people will shun the person and think that if they remain friends they may get it.  They don't realize or care that this just is not true. Keep up the good work.

Sincerely, Lynn W.


hi,
I read your site and thought it was very strong and powerful. I loved your way & boldness in this site & just had to share it...in hopes of possibly educating some of my child's friends? I worked out in the fishing industry with a fellow that was also infected. He ran circles around the lot of us. We were long liner the old Viking way, no machines. This man would get up before all of us (usually only having 4-5 at max of sleep) And he would hide
hiv medications aids drugs cocktail therapy combinationhis vomiting and illness. The only reason I knew anything was that he and I had been sent to our boat prior to the crew to make the vessel ready for our contract, in that time though we had been strangers when we met. He eventually gave me his story. I never forgot him and we worked several contracts with one another, he helped me become a stronger worker to run 250% more circles around the men I had to work with. Having been the only women whom had all her teeth, he showed me the strength and courage of a thousand men and taught me how to appreciate each day and all it brought. I appreciate your fight. & I miss my friend dearly.

Thank you with much compassion to you
Antoinette..aka "Thrasher"


Bob,

You have to be one of the most amazing men. This just shows people that you can't tell from the outside someone is living with AIDS. Protect your self and others.. I love how open and honest you are about your life. And how AIDS hasn't made you lay down and die..

Bren


Hey Bob!
Bob Bowers AIDS activist and long term AIDS survivor-Madison, Wisconsin-United States
Want to wish you ALL THE BEST for your BIRTHDAY! Hope you're doing fine, receive a lot of presents and have a great party! Wish you nothing but the best, esp. power and strength to move on, believe in yourself and good friends to manage everything properly. Take care!

Love, Heiki


hi bob,

my name is constanze-yesterday i heard the presentation from heike about your illness, she said, you would be pleased, when somebody from our class would send you an email. but first, i have to say, that my English is not very good, i think my teacher think so, too!!! what i want to say, i find it very courageous, what you do! i hope, i won't hurt your feelings, but somebody must have very much courage to start such a campaign, like heike told us. well in Germany, we have only some actions at the first December, but that is all, too!!

yours faithfully constanze


Ahoy Bob,

Da Pirate aka Bob Bowers at Mendota Mental Health InstituteOn behalf of the staff and patients at Mendota, I want to thank you for taking your time to come and speak to us. Your courage, strength and honesty has left a lasting impression on many of us. You are truly "One Tough Pirate" and I wish you health and happiness in your life.

-All the Best

Patti Schaller, RN
Patient/Family Education Coord/Staff Competency
Mendota Mental Health Institute


Bob,

I wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your courage, determination, compassion, strength. I had never done a ride like this before and I know I will never do another (except act iii) like it again. I loved all your pics, when I get my web page in order, I'll pass it on to the MSN group.  Thanks so much Bob.  You are a hero!

Bonnie Clyde
aka butt balm bonnie


I went to your web site and I was very moved at your speaking of HIV and AIDS awareness, I commend you for your strength and courage and speaking out. Although I have never personally known anyone that has HIV or AIDS i have compassion for you and the millions that have this disease. I am a nursing assistant for a home health care facility where I live and have cared for HIV AIDS patients in hospice and home care. You have my support and compassion and I wish you well in your endeavors.

Many Blessings,

Angela


Hello my friend,
      It was Bob Bowers and Heather Maxwell-Madison, Wisconsin-United Stateswonderful to hear you speak yesterday, and I thought you did an amazing job. The message you spread and the reasons that you do what you do are so inspiring, and I know you made an impact on many of those students, and you always do every time I get to see you! :) I loved your analogy of the younger audience that you speak to being "your children." I feel so lucky to have met you last year at ACT II and to have continued our friendship throughout the year. Thank you so much for doing what you do, and thank you for taking the time to educate, inform, and inspire. I'll talk to you hopefully very soon.

Lots of love, Heather


I thank Bob for coming in and sharing his life with us. As he said, "it is important for people to put a face to this." I envy his ability to tell everyone he needs to, that he is HIV positive. I agree that it is an "entirely preventable virus" and everyone does have the choice to participate in harmful situations or be safe. He kept on stressing, "it's so real..."

Perri W.


I just wanted to say thank you.  I don't have HIV/AIDS or any other incurable disease, but I do have compassion and a true passion for humanity and enabling the human spirit to persevere through all of life's challenges.  

 

Bob Bowers in OregonGod bless you for your diligence and spirit and I wish you another 100 years of continued health, happiness and success.

 

With much sincerity, Gina


Hi Bob,
 
It was great meeting you this week.  You really are one inspirational individual.

~ Michael Silverstein


Dear Bob,

Over the years in the social groups I attend to, I can say I met many a person. But not a single one of them has made me take the few moments I did out of my day and revel in your awesomeness.
And I've known some people that have had their fair share of shit happen to them. But I spent some time on your site links, and you made me not only commend you for the courage you have, but actually realize what little things I take for granted every day just by being alive. I hope this message reaches you in the BEST of health, and I hope your time on this planet is longer and more prosperous than you ever dreamed it could be. Again, I feel compelled to wish you congratulations on not giving up, and good luck in helping others. I would say don't quit fighting, and don't give up,  but I think you already have plenty of motivation and faith of your own. I just hope my few little words fan what blazing flames drive you. Thank you for being such a beautiful human being.

With the utmost respect and high regards, Erica. Bojan


 I Bob Bowersthink the message that Bob Bowers is working to spread needs to be heard by more people. He is a great example of someone who has maintained a  very high level of fitness has a devoted wife and a normal sex life, and most importantly enjoys a high quality of life. It is really encouraging to see someone not only survive but prosper in society for over two decades after being infected with HIV. Further, it was great that he was willing to talk about his experiences, and was completely open and responsive to questions from the audience.    ~ Michael P.


Kudos to you for apparently continuing to wage your own personal fight against what typically can not only be a mortal enemy in the end, but one who - as it takes its 'hosts' freely and randomly, with no discretion and all the while not being 'seen', creates an overwhelming breeding ground in which even loved ones turn against loves ones because they fear what they haven't educated themselves about. You're a prolific writer and your joy, enthusiasm, positive outlook and zest for life, as well as your sincerity, simply glows from your words, Bob.  Congratulations on all of your accomplishments - professionally, personally, and health-wise.  I admire and respect the way you reach out and touch so many people with your story of hope and courage and frankly, can't really imagine you NOT doing that. You have a natural gift for connecting with people and to be able to combine that with life experiences you've seen so far and relay that in a way where all are receptive is truly amazing and even magical. I'm fortunate that you were put on my path and that we became, and hopefully will be for many years to come, friends. - Jeannie


I was up late last nite and I watched your special (The Fire Within) with you and your wife, she was doing the road bike through California. I think you two are amazing people, I wanted to thank you for helping me. To look at my life completely differently. then the poor me I got sick. I don't have HIV but I have enough other shit I just cried watching you throw bob bowers jenny heifetz up and throw up from medicine and your attitude amazed me. I take more pills then any normal person could stand. and I decided to live more like you I can win this fight for life. Bob you should do more specials and if there are more out there please direct them to me. write a book too, you might already have one I think you impact people more then you realize. thank you, god be with you. you are in my prays forever.

~malinda


What an awesome site!!!  I admire you for being outspoken about the things you have gone through.  The world truly needs more people like you.  I wish you the best of luck in all that you do, and may you accomplish many of the wonderful things you are doing for people.  Blessed Be!!!                          
~Angel~


I hope I am not being to forward in e-mailing you.....but.....I just wanted to tell you that your site brought both tears to my eyes, chills to my skin, and peace to my heart. I have not been directly affected by AIDS on a personal level, however, being Bob Bowers and Allison Moe a nurse my final goal is to be involved in the fight for research and a cure. I hope that it didn't bother you  me e-mailing you, but it was kind of laid on my heart, I never look at peoples website, but something told me to check yours out. I have been directly affected by cancer several times which is another type of research I'd like to do, but I feel like the Lord is pushing me to work with HIV/AIDS patients and I'm not really sure why. And I love your saying Compassion is our cure......b/c it is the truth in this world through and through. Sorry, if I bothered you in anyway, I just really wanted to say I think it's awesome what you are doing, and I wish more people would be on the proactive side of this fight. Sincerely, Erin


Hi Bob,

I would like to thank you for helping make my week fun and something that I will never forget. Thanks for all the wonderful hugs, as well as the crazy outfits and wigs that made me smile. I told Vicki that I think I got more hugs in that one week than I got in the last eight years!

Thank you even more for sharing your story through the documentary that was shown. I actually watched it on Sunday night before the ride started and watched most of it during the ride. I really don't know what I can say or how to say it. You have been through (and are going through) something that I can't begin to imagine how tough each day is for you. But I thank you so much for the work that you do in bringing AIDS awareness to people. I think that it is very important that people especially teens understand how important it is to "know" this disease. So thank you for helping me and other people put a "face" on this disease.

I know that I haven't done a very good job expressing to you how much you have touched my life. But please know that you have and I thank you for it. :)

Take care,
Sally


Good Afternoon Bob,

I just spoke with Jake Glaser and he told me that you wanted me to email you.  I only have a few minutes right now, but I will definitely email you again.  I have checked out your website.  IT is awesome!!!!  I hope to create a website one of these days.  Thank You for those kind words you bob bowers and ben banks hiv aids survivor said about me the other night to the reporter from The Capital Times.  I am just started to do more and more.  If I can help you out with anything, please let me know and I will do everything I can do to help you.  I will let you know of things that come my way.  I hope this finds you in good health.  Take Care of yourself!!  Continue to do that great work you do!

Best Wishes,
ben banks


Hi Bob--
hiv positive speaker bob bowers giving aids lecture uw madison medical school Wow, your talk with medical students today was awesome!!  I've continued to hear students talking about it all afternoon--you really had an impact on them.  We'll definitely have you back to talk with next year's group of students.  Once we have the exam schedule, we can figure out a good date for the fall. You are such a wonderful, inspiring person, and I think that by talking with young medical students you'll be making a significant contribution to the health care of the next generation. Thanks so much for your time, energy, passion, enthusiasm, and LIFE!! xoxoxoxox

Sharon Younkin, Ph.D.
Director, Community Service Programs
University of Wisconsin Medical School
Health Sciences Learning Center


Hi, my name is Kristal.  I happened upon your website.  I just wanted to let you know that it is wonderful that you go to different places ie schools to talk to the kids about HIV/AIDS.  It is very Bob Bowers AIDS activist and Carol Samuelimportant for kids as well as adults to be able to understand & actually meet someone living with HIV/AIDS.  I do not have HIV/AIDS, however, I was one of the girls who never insisted on safe sex...until recently when my ex-fiancée was caught cheating on me & I was tested for the disease.  I'm sorry I don't mean to bother you, but after reading just about everything I could on your site ---I had to tell you what a good job you are doing.  

Thank you,

Kristal


From the tone of your last email, I can tell that you probably want to cash it all in. Oddly enough, I understand. You fought for so long and still continue to fight. It truly is "human" to stop and ask "is it worth it". No one can answer that. The answer is in your heart. From what I saw- that heart is unique. So unique that most people will never see it or feel it. You are correct, you have a purpose, you were destined for a path in life that is challenging- degrading- painful- rewarding and complex. I don't blame you for questioning - "why me". This is all too much for a "common" person. Bob, you are not common. You were selected by some higher power to lead a life that teaches and aids others. If I look at your life from an unbiased view, I can see that you are predestined. Why do you think I offered to care for you? I can see that what you are predestined for is very difficult. I feel it is a honor to be conversing with you. I share these feelings with my wife and kids as well. It's okay to cry and its okay to realize that the road your on is hard. Getting back up on your feet is the difficult part. That is how your friends and myself can help. Use us- abuse us...I go back to my nursery at work and look at all the faces of the infants that are fighting to liveACT AIDS Ride Wisconsin Madison Lora Wilkinson- these little ones are miniature versions of you Bob. Some do survive and go home to loving families. Others- we care for as long as they need medical attention. I have a good strong group now Bob! They smile and fuss like normal babies. In the back of my mind I sometimes retreat to those thoughts that they will have normal lives. You are right again Bob, I don't know you personally. But on another level- I know you more than you think. I've learned many tough lessons- I've sobbed many tears in my life. To you- I send my love and warmth. To you I send my prayers.

Peace-
You are One Tough Pirate!

-Matt


It was so good to see you again!  I had to leave right after your presentation to get to my next class but I just wanted to let you know that hearing you speak is always so inspiring and moving. I hope that everything is going well for you and I hope to see you again soon.  

~Orit 


Bob-

No definitely thank you for all the things that you do (especially with the youth.. after all they are the ones that hold this fight in the future). Thanks again for speaking on Monday and everything you are doing this whole week....but most of all for just being you.

Craig Adamski - Case Manager AIDS Network


It is ME who is thankful for people like YOU, Pirate!  1200 teenagers reached at West yesterday, a panel discussion last night, and HOW MANY kids at East today????  You're amazing.  Talk to you soon.

(M.) Ann Fleming - Lead Case Manager
AIDS NetworkBob Bowers

 

 

 


 
     Saw your article in the Wisconsin State Journal- What a great article! I was moved by it- so I decided to write ( I don't often do this!)  But, any ways I wanted to let you know I had saw it. I wish you luck on your ride this week. Hope all goes well and it is a success.  And just to remind you that we are out here and we are  "pulling for you" - so keep your head up! Stay positive and good luck on your endeavors to inform others about AIDS and HIV. It's great that there is someone out there doing just that!
 
Your friend, Bill C.
 

HIV positive speakers-Bob Bowers HIV/AIDS long-term survivor-AIDS activist-Madison, Wisconsin-United States Just wanted to say great job on the site. My uncle died from AIDS about 10 years ago and its great to see that people are living longer with it than he did and that someone is doing something to educate people about AIDS and HIV. Take care and God Bless.

~ Michelle

HIV positive speaker Bob Bowers


Dedicated to Mr. Bob Bowers

By Deon Johnson

Hope and Faith have become my best friends, now that I have been diagnosed with an incurable illness. I continue to enjoy every aspect of my life, now that I understand my sickness.

There is no known cure for this horrible plague so I must anticipate a miracle. Although I am not infected with this disease, I feel your pain, so the hurt we share is identical.

I encourage you to live jubilantly even though having an ailment could be a pain; but inspiration and collaboration can only bring happiness and gain.

one tough pirate-bob bowersI despise those who discriminate because they refuse to understand your complication, and due to their stubbornness you have become a victim of dehumanization.

Blood is thicker than water. Love is thicker than hate. So, despite your illness, you shall still live happily and overlook those who discriminate.

God Bless You, Bob.
November 16, 2001
Fred C. Nelles Youth Correctional Facility-Whittier, California


TO THAT BAD ASS PIRATE:

I WORK AT THE OAKLAND COMMUNITY SCHOOL. AND I HAVE TO SAY THAT
YOU REALLY GOT TO THE KIDS TODAY(3/15/01). MAN, I NEVER SAW THOSE KIDS SO INTO A SPEAKER LIKE THEY WERE WITH YOU. FUCK THEY WERE QUIET, SHIT THAT MEANS THAT THEY WERE REALLY THINKIN ABOUT THE FUCKING TRUTH. WE ALWAYS HAVE SOMEBODY FROM THE COUNTY COME IN AND TALK ABOUT AIDS. BUT YOU GOT TO THEM. TAKE IT FROM A GUY THAT HAS BEEN WITH THESE KIDS FOR ABOUT 3 YRS. YOU KNOW I FEEL LIKE A FATHER TO THESE KIDS. BUT YOU LIKE OPENED THESE KIDS UP TO A NEW LEVEL WITH AIDS. THOSE KIDS ASKED ME SO MANY QUESTIONS ABOUT YOU WHEN YOU LEFT. HA HA HAyouth hiv/aids prevention, education in high schools colleges jails universities, YOU WERE COOL. YOU WERE THE TALK OF THE SCHOOL, I TOLD THE STAFF THAT THEY WERE MISSING THE BEST SPEAKER WE EVER HAD HERE AT THE SCHOOL. THEY LIKED HOW YOU DIDN'T BULLSHIT WITH ANY ANSWERS AND DIDN'T HIDE ANYTHING. SHIT THAT'S HOW I AM WITH THESE KIDS, MAN I WISH WE HAD SOMEONE TALK TO THESE KIDS MORE LIKE THAT YOU KNOW. DON'T SUGARCOAT SHIT. TELL THEM HOW THIS SHIT IS KILLIN GOOD FUCKIN PEOPLE LIKE YOURSELF. TELL THEM THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT'S GOIN ON OUT THERE BEYOND THE WALLS THAT GUIDE THEM. HEY I JUST WANTED TO SAY THANKS FOR TALKIN TO THESE KIDS AND LETTING THEM IN ON YOUR LIFE. IT TAKES A STRONG PERSON TO OPEN UP TO THESE KIDS. THANKS MAN, I GOT MUCH LOVE FOR YOU. FIGHT ON!

FROM BILL SILLETTI


Bob-

I hope you can remember me.  I am Bob Waldron, a 130lb YMCA member you gave 2 training sessions on the CYBEX strength-training machines at the old KYF building in downtown Kenosha.....during the last couple months before you left for Madison. You've got a lot of fans here, who talk very highly of you.  Of course, your good friend, Larry Zapp, is one of these and it's he that told me about your website.  I just came from there and learned about your story and your mission.  I feel proud to have had those sessions with someone like you;  I had no idea at the time the kind of pain and other obstacles you have been dealing with. In addition to being a full-time Postal Worker, I volunteer weekly at the Cancer Treatment Center in Zion; I've been there over a year now, and I meet people on a regular basis who are facing and dealing with the same kinds of life-threatening tortures that you are.  Frequently the treatment is more ferocious than the disease.  I've learned so much from these people, and now from you; I'm also continuing the strength training program you started me on, and I've doubled the weights on almost all of the stations you showed me. You're doing a great job under unusually difficult circumstances. Keep it up !

My prayers and thoughts are with you.

From one Bob to another,
Bob


Hello Bob  

I spent some time exploring your website and I will definitely spend even more! WOW! Is the first thing I have to say! I am very impressed with you tooooooooo! You definitely have been doing a lot to help create awareness around HIV/AIDS as well as all it takes to live well and happy. I look forBob Bowers on Wisconsin AIDS Rideward to viewing your documentary and reading more of your articles...My website was launched August 15th 2003... When looking at your website I see a very dedicated and loving man. I also can see all you have been doing, your family and friends. Your thoughts and how you go about life, it all stands out! You are outstanding!!!! It feels good too, to connect with someone, knowing I am/we are, not alone……that there are those of us who are LIVING long and happy lives. And at the same time, dedicated to not only making a difference in how we live our own lives, but the lives of others too! To live 20 or 21 years is no easy feat!  Congratulations on all you have learned and accomplished. I’m very proud to know you!   

Bradford  

You can visit Brad at: www.positivelypositive.ca


Hey Bob,

You look so wonderful and sound like you have done so many good and positive things with your life. I am so proud of you and what you have accomplished and the plans you have to make AIDS so much more understandable to others and provide answers and options. Your email box must be full, but please include me from now on so I know what you are doing and how you are. I am proud to say you were my trainer and still are and always be my special friend.

Love to you,
Judi Goldfarb


Oh Bobby!!

D
earest Bob,


I just reviewed your wonderful website. It has been a while since I have looked at it. Once again (just like in the beginning) - I got the chills, a feeling of serenity and an overwhelming gratitude of love and friendship. You are one of most wonderful human beings I have ever met and I thank God each day for our relationship.

Love, Kathleen Tenuta 
 


The Phoenix

The chain and cords came with it...you don't have to wear it (kinda dangerous with all those points! :-) ) but you could hang it up somewhere to remind yourself that you have, like the phoenix, risen from the ashes through your own determination and will. Remember that what has risen from the ashes is not a toad or mole, or skunk or weak lil' worm but a beautiful strong soaring phoenix that has spread his wings over and around us. So soar on, my friend, and enjoy the the wind in your face and the warmth of your friends and the beauty of your accomplishments.


Hugs forever,
Rebecca Venn


Hey Pirate,
It has been awhile but great to hear from you and know you are doing well. Great to see the photos thanks for sharing.

Brian said he emailed you and he was glad to get your update as well. He still looks to you for inspiration often, he is now a youth minister in his church and is looking forward to speaking about AIDS as often as anyone will listen.

He's grown up a lot this last few years and we are really grateful for such positive role models such as yourself in his life. Wisconsin is lucky to have you and I know that your activism will be touching the lives of many new faces....

Stay well and much love to ya.

love Adrianne M. Lopez and Tom
AIDS Marathon


Hey Bob,

You may or may not remember me from (roughly) May of 2001. I met you at a club (I think Crazy Girls), on Labrea Blvd. I'm the guy from Kentucky (with the shaved head). We were doing construction at the Omni hotel in downtown L.A. I hope you remember. I just wanted to let you know that I remembered you, and I do hope you are doing very well. I'm sorry we lost touch, while we out there. I'm living in Kentucky now, finishing college. I graduate in May 2003....thank God! You may remember me telling you that my brother was paralyzed and teaching college in Louisville, Ky. He passed away this past December. He was injecting methadone (in it's oral form), which ultimately got the best of him. It's been hard, but people seem to find strength form the strangest places. You certainly popped in my mind a few times. I remember you as being a very strong individual and I'd like you to know that some of it has definitely rubbed off on me. I realize that our lives are very precious and we are never guaranteed anything, certainly not tomorrow, no matter who we are. I have made a lot of changes in my life and I'd like for the people who have touched me in some way to know it! Anyway, I hope you remember me...and I hope you are doing well. Please let me know. I check my e-mail frequently, so please stay in touch!


-Ryan


Hi!

I'm the lead singer from Monogroove, the band at Canter's last night. I was adding you to our mailing list and decided to check out your web page. And I felt all the blood drain from me when I read your story, and I am sitting here crying now, trying to see the letters on the keys so I can tell you how happy I am for you that you're still so alive. Your story struck a well-worn chord with me- About 6 years ago my uncle who is very like a father to me was found to be HIV positive. I am from a small town in Pennsylvania that definitely was not up on current events, and we were all confused as to what happened from that point. We have never been able to make my grandmother understand-she still thinks that he has some type of cancer, or something that will eventually go away. You described everything we saw- with the vomiting and the pain and the bags of pills and the nights we thought it was all over. The times that doctors said we should get his affairs in order, because he wouldn't be with us in the morning. Yet here he is. Like you, the doctors aren't sure why he's still with us- unlike you he is a little man, and was always a bit frail, even for a Navy man- but it's so good to hear that there is hope! That he may live many more years, maybe even until a cure is found. And you are right about people's preconceived notions. My uncle was sent to the Persian Gulf while in the Navy, and while there, he got sick and was sent to a hospital where he received a transfusion of contaminated blood. Yet people still look at you knowingly when you explain his situation. Who are they to judge? God bless you, and God bless the others around you who are keeping faith and hope alive. Your story is inspirational, even though I don't think I'll ever be able to not feel sadness for so many people being lost to such a terrible thing.
-Lady V
Chick from Monogroove


A week ago on a Saturday night, i met you at Mel's Diner on Sunset in Hollywood. Some of my friends and I talked to you about your website and so i finally decided to go check it out. i am only 19, but i understand that this is a serious issue. I deeply respect what you are doing, and i hope that you can continue speaking to kids and people alike, informing them about this terrible sickness. I just wanted to sign your guest book, but i didn't se one. so instead i wrote this to you, just to let you know someone actually cares and doesn't think you are full of shit. Good luck with your fight, and god bless.  Kenny


hi bob--
i just finally had the chance to read the letter you wrote--i think you said it was one you used in a presentation for pep la. wow! life has not been so fun lately, but reading that sure put it in perspective. you are amazing and inspirational to say the least. For someone i only met briefly, your life has had quite an impact--i guess a lot of people can say that oBob Bowers and Romi Simmonsf you. You are in my thoughts often. I just had to let you know how lucky this world is to have you around, and to thank you for your difficult, tiring(sp?), challenging, frustrating, necessary, needed, appreciated, inspirational, motivational, educational, thought provoking, beautiful (you get the idea) life and work! i feel lucky to have met you. i do also have to say after reading, that i'm sorry for all the pain you have to and have had to deal with--emotionally and physically--ddaaaammmnn bob!!!--thanks for trying so hard-- so, hope all is well most recently, and 'till our paths cross again, take care---

Seeeeeeyaaaaaaa---
Susan Sinjur


Wow! You are such an amazing writer, Bob...I had no idea! Thank you so much for being so brave, and sharing with me and others, many intimate and vulnerable details of the living hell you've endured. I don't want to invest any more energy than I already have, in anger and resentment against the pharmaceutical companies; A.M.A.; standardly trained M.D.s; etc. for feeding their desperate and trusting patients with poison!!!! I am so sorry this happened to you, and amazed that you have survived from the days of AZT monotherapy, to today! I'm blessed to know you, as are all the people, young and old, who can listen to your story. There are so many lives out there you are saving!! I get that survivor's guilt, too, as a fellow member of the "17 Year Club". It really isn't necessary, as I know that we were both chosen by whatever spiritual powers that be, to be messengers and ambassadors testifying to the art of living, fighting, and prevention. Thank you again, for your article, your website, your e-newsletter, and for being part of my world!

Love,
Andrea


bOB, THIS IS BEAUTIFUL, AND i WISH i COULD GIVE YOU MORE THAN A black and grey spider web tribal wench skull sleeve tattoos
HEARTFELT HUG. YOU ARE INSPIRATIONAL BEYOND BELIEF, AND i just adore you. What a brave and beautiful person you are. Can I share this writing, or should I wait till you publish the final version? I want all my nieces and nephews to meet you and know you. I talk about you a lot. I am so moved, there are not words to describe it. God was in a good mood the day he made you! (But he's gotta get him some Prozac - these moods swings gotta go!)

I love you, baby!   ~Sheryl


hello mr. bowers,

i just wanted to say that i really admire you because you are really fighting for your life. And is doing what ever is possible to talk teens out of having unprotected sex and drug abuse. i really thank you for taking the time to come and talk to us about the risk of hiv and aids. i also thank you because you really gave me personally a better look at what aids can do and take away from you. thanks a lot really.

p.s.
never give up keep on fighting till the end.

your new and truthful friend,
wendy n. (MR. MARRIOT FIRST PERIOD CLASS.)
(THE GIRL IN THE RED PHILLIES SHIRT)

ALWAYS AND FOREVER WE'LL FIGHT TO THE END.
count me in as one of your true friends.


Hi Bob
That is some awesome writing!!!!! It is very moving and soul touching. Very deep. How well you have put the words together to express what you have had to live thru. What an awful amount of suffering you have had to experience and watch others go through yet you keep on and write so well, create a great website, encourage others, have a loving marriage, have wisdom and compassion beyond your years. Although I am a host to a different virus (yuck) I can personality relate to so much of the symptoms and feelings. Just to "know" you in cyberspace and hear your story and through all you have lived with still see such a strong spirit, motivation, compassion, love and will to live is quite an inspiration to me. Let me know if it is ok to pass your story on.

Aloha, Khat Suncat (Sunny)


This was really amazing Bob...no one could ever call you a "taker" you are a tremendous "giver." Thank you for sharing this and your struggles with me because it makes me better, makes me appreciate more and makes me realize just how precious life and love is. I'm sorry that you were burdened with this disease but I am always so amazed by the good you've done through having it, the lives you've changed and the hearts you've filled with joy. You suffer all the pain but we get all the benefit from your wisdom and I'm sorry for you for that but yet so grateful. You are a spiritual messenger you know, and that's a tremendous responsibility which you bear so gracefully and powerfully. Thanks for being in my life.

I love you,
Julie C.


To the Cool Guy,

You probably get a trillion letters a day, but I just wanted to share a story with you that I thought you might be kind of interested in. My name is Heather, and you recently visited my class at Crossroads High School. It was funny that you came in when you did, because the following weekend I was already planning on getting my tattoo. When you talked about how important it was to make sure the needles were clean, I listened closely. That Saturday, I went to Venice Beach with my friend to get my tattoo, and when I sat down with the man, I asked him to show me that the Bob Bowers and Lora Wilkinson at red ribbon affair aids network needles were clean. He replied, "Trust me." Well, I'm not that gullible, so I asked him to prove it. He told me, "Listen up, girl... I have a lot to do today. I promise you the needles are clean." I was freaked out, so I told my friend to go tell the other man in the store, who looked to be the manager or something, named James. James immediately came over and demanded to talk to my soon-to-be tattoo artist. Within a few seconds, James was apologizing to me and told me that the man was fired. James told me that the policy of the store was to open the needle packages in front of the customer, and by failing to do this, the tattoo artist was fired. Well, I got my tattoo. I left laughing with my friend but inside I was scared to death. If it hadn't been for you talking to my class, I probably would have completely forgotten to ask if the needles were clean, and therefore could have subjected myself to whatever was on them. Not only that, but the man may have remained in the store forever, infecting other people. My friends later told me what a good deed I had done, but I give the credit entirely to you, Bob. Thank you soooooo much.

Very Sincerely
Heather


Bob...

I am completely speechless..... I, I don't know how or what to say.
AIDS Network red ribbon affair madison wisconsin Maybe it would be better if i didn't say anything at all except for this, My heart goes out to you and your wife. Although we only met a few weeks ago, I have the utmost respect for you, my friend. I'm sure you have heard this before, but if you ever need anything, anything at all, please, please, please call me. You're family man.... I thank God for our chance meeting.... you have blessed my life in so many ways. Thank you. Take care man,

Your friend for life!
Jared aka. J-Dawg


Changing kids lives by
Helping them see
Intelligence instead of stupidity
Loving understanding arms that never
Demand
Raising high hopes
Enabling us to stand
Never giving up

On our little dreams
For pimps aren't always what they seem

Trusting in us to do the right thing
Having a heart and letting us in
Expressing your great hopes for us to win

Naive little children no matter what age
Indulging men's fantasies on a very small stage
God then sent you from heaven above, to
Help us understand the true meaning of love
Together we'll continue to do what we can,
spreading this important message across the land

The above poem is written by one of my favorite kids from Children of the Night. Her name is Anna B. and she is such a beautiful young spirit. THANK YOU Anna for sharing this touching poem with all of us!


ME AND MOM LOVE YOU BOTH AND WE WHERE HAPPY AND STAY IN THERE
WE LOVE YOU BOTH FROM BRIAN&MOM.


Hi Bob,

I just finished reading all the responses from some of the young people in Brian's health class. I was very moved to read such honest letters! I have known you for over a year now and I am always amazed at how much more you reveal of yourself each time you speak. Thank you for agreeing to come up here for the day. I know that you did not tell them just how bad you were feeling that day and that your shingles were really bothering you. I know that there was a possibility that you would not have been able to join us. You are remarkable. What I think has drawn me to you most is the fact that no matter how bad you may feel (and I know each day can be a struggle) you get up and go out and share yourself with others. What the students didn't see was you getting to Griffith Park at the crack of dawn, with your bright red pom pom and cheering on the Marathon Runners raising money for APLA. I have heard several of the participants comment how much they miss you when you are not there to wave and cheer them on. Watching the faces in that classroom I felt very lucky. I had the opportunity to watch my son get a great gift in you. So many parents don't have that opportunity to share something that special with their kids. I'm sure some of them went home and told their parents that they met you and relayed what happened. I'm sure the parents (no fault of their own) didn't feel the impact of it either. Getting to meet you, knowing there are real people with this disease. As I said that day, as a mother all I can do is give my child all the tools and weapons to equip him to make good, california aids ride chicken lady ken safe and intelligent decisions for himself and those around him. Not just about sex and drugs but any behavior that can put him at risk or those who are around him. I can only hope that he will feel confident that he can. As will each of the students who had the opportunity to meet you. Being with you and Shawn this past week end at all our fundraisers, hearing you both speak about the need for awareness made me want to just tell everyone who would listen about these fiercely loving people who are fighting HIV/AIDS every single day. What an important message of love and hope you have. It is very hard to imagining you are sick. Looking at you, this big strong, tough looking biker type dude. The picture of health, just gave the message that this virus does it's damage from the inside out. That no matter who you pass on the street even the healthiest looking person could be carrying this horrible disease. That was the reason I wanted you to speak to the students. I wanted them to see that you don't have to look sick to be sick, you don't have to be gay and you don't have to be some junkie on the street. This virus isn't picky! What I read over and over again was the one issue I wanted to drive home the most...now this virus has a face. AIDS is no longer a stranger. AIDS is not a disease that someone else I don't know has. Now I have touched someone who really has it. And you know what...I didn't catch it from him. What I did catch was the tool to keep me from getting it !!! I hope each student can really appreciate the knowledge that they now have and pass it on the others!! Well my tough pirate friend, I know that down inside is a really gentle and caring soul. One who fights each day for another day of living. I think of you often when I feel like my day has gotten the better of me...and I realize that my worst day would never compare with what you face every moment of every day. I have never known such a courageous individual in my life. To you students who are reading this now. I love my son and want his future to be filled with great things. All parents want that for their children. Bob's parents didn't want this for him and he doesn't want this for you either. Be kind to yourself. Know that you are truly the best friend you will ever have. Trust that your courage will get you through some very serious S_ _ _! Things we don't tell other people, things we think are too horrible to share. Bob is a perfect example that no matter how horrible, life is worth fighting for...be strong!!!

Love To You
Adrianne
(Brian's Mom)


Bob

In case you can't figure out who this is from, it is Jesse (Erin's friend). I wanted to write to wish you the best and to let you know that Erin called from Italy today to say how much she loves you and how much she is thinking about you. She really wants you to know that she wishes you the best and that she will be in L.A. as soon as she possibly can once she returns from her trip. Bob, I barely know you, but the little piece that I do know seems to be one hell of a fighter. Hang in there, fight like I know you will and know that there are people all over this state, coast and country that love and are thinking of you. I wish you the best and send my prayers. You are a martyr for so many and have given so much -- I only hope you know how important and meaningful the work you do is.

Enough for now. I wish you the best.
Good luck and Godspeed.
-Jesse


Dearest Bob:

So here I am jammin' to get ready for the big interview and I couldn't help but read your stories. You are something else. Yup, you had me in tears several times. YOU put me into perspective with my own medical challenges. How can I complain about the debilitating joint disease and degenerative osteoarthritis when I have friends like you suffering through the anguish of HIV. How you keep the spiritwendy arnold pep la peer education program of los angeles erin kandel and delightful sense of humor is enlightening. You really are a beam of light and hope. How blessed I am that you and Shawn are now a significant part of my life and a driving force for my indefatigable commitment against HIV/AIDS. How blessed I am that you have so strongly reinforced my goal of elevating the care, compassion and hope for our friends with HIV/AIDS. You personify the entire mission of PEP/LA, PEP/INTERNATIONAL and all of our PEP "satellites". You are behind the true passion that motivates Wendy to continue to fight even if it means living in the bush of Africa as I did in Zimbabwe and will presumably do in the dirt of Uganda in January.

Stay strong, my angel, you are our inspiration.

Very sincere love,

Wendy Arnold


THE FIERCE HERO

YOU ARE THE FUCKING MOST AMAZING person I HAVE EVER KNOWN...wow
bob bowers erin kandel jenny heifetz you are the coolest and I love and admire you more than I could ever say. You are triumphant. Bob, with your name written on your forehead." HERO" is damn right. I cannot wait to hear about all of the other amazing souls that traveled with you on your journey...I look forward to stories about those you inspired and touched and those that inspired and touched you. Welcome home. I am sooooooooooo(x1000)oooooooo... PROUD OF YOU!!!

All my love and hugs and kisses,
Erin Michelle
Kandel


We will survive, and conquer all there is to come! Tanya Bercu


Bob Bowers-long-term aids survivors-aids activists-One Tough Pirate-Madison, Wisconsin-United States

 

Just wanted to let you know that YOU are the strongest person I know.
We're all pulling for you.

Much love
Scottie Boom Body

 



 

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youth hiv/aids education prevention La Follette High School Madison Wisconsin health class

Da Pirate comparin' guns with some of the La Follette High School students after speaking about HIV/AIDS prevention and education.
Thank you guys, Heidi and all of La Follette High School for your incredible show of appreciation and support!
I look forward to my return visits!

Youth HIV/AIDS education, prevention, awareness in schools in Wisconsin and the United States

MORE PHOTOS FROM BOB'S PRESENTATIONS TO YOUTH ABOUT HIV/AIDS PREVENTION-EDUCATION AND LIVING WITH HIV/AIDS

 

Youth HIV/AIDS education prevention in schools

 
 

youth hiv/aids prevention comprehensive sex education in schools in Wisconsin and the United States-Bob Bowers

 
 
Courage and belief is all it takes to convey a strong message, you seem like a man of conviction, anytime we can have you this way, let me know, we need people like you in every community, KUDOS!

~ Oscar

 
Thanks for coming to our school :) your awesome. You're a wonderful speaker and we all had a good time listening to you. I hope to see you again :)

~Carly
 
   

Da Pirate and some awesome students from Wisconsin Heights High School after speaking about HIV/AIDS prevention and education

 

 
   

Youth HIV/AIDS educator Bob Bowers with students at La Follette High School in Madison, Wisconsin

 
I swear, Bob...you are the coolest man around:-) We need more men on this planet like YOU....Your work is so well appreciated and your enthusiasm is infectious:-) If you are ever here in the Bay Area, I will volunteer to help you in any way I can....OK? Just let me know:-)

Sincerely,
Dave
 
Thanks for being an inspiration, a beacon of hope, and my hero...but most of all being you.

~David
 
May you always be blessed because YOU are the best. Here in Indianapolis we LOVE YOU!

~Tami
 
   

Bob Bowers and Kalee Garland doing HIV/AIDS prevention through education at Jackson Street Youth Shelter in Corvallis, Oregon
Our sincere and heartfelt thanks to the amazing folks at Jackson Street Youth Shelter!

 

One Tough Pirate-Bob Bowers-AIDS activists-Youth HIV/AIDS education-prevention and awareness-Madison, Wisconsin-United States

 

 

All About Da Pirate A.k.a. Bob Bowers

A Pirate's life for me....

I have been living with HIV/AIDS for over two decades. I was infected from sharing a syringe to inject crystal meth and was launched into a reality I never would have dreamed of. In 1984 I was told I had cancer or 'this thing called AIDS' and to prepare for the worst.

I am serious about prevention, education, reducing stigma, raising awareness and funds in the fight against AIDS on a National and Global level. I speak passionately about the disregard we too often have for our most marginalized youth and adults and the dire need to address issues such as racism, homophobia, addiction and poverty.

It is imperative that we quit ignoring the pink elephant and fight for a more united, empowered and enlightened society regardless of AIDS.

Near the end of my 11 year marriage, and the loss of my best man, I committed my time and energy to making a lasting impact in this fight and sharing my life story through my words as well
as a feature length documentary, The Fire Within.

In 2005 I founded the nonprofit educational organization, HIVictorious, Inc. based in Madison, Wisconsin. I am wholeheartedly committed to not sugar coating the harsh realities of this pandemic, speaking truth to power and kicking some serious HIV ass. (and having a good time doing it!) )

In doing so, I also honor the memories and courage of my dozens of friends from all walks of life who were taken from us far too early. It is to you my friends who have passed, and to the courageous souls surviving and thriving with this disease, that I will never ever surrender in this fight!

I bow to you as well as my countless friends and to my family for your unconditional love and support throughout these many years! It was surreal beyond all comprehension to have celebrated my 44th birthday this year! Compassion is our cure!
Bob Bowers AIDS activist-aka Da Pirate or One Tough Pirate-Madison, Wisconsin and United States

exercising and HIV/AIDS importance of lean body mass while living with HIV/AIDS Bob Bowers

 
     

 

 

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youth hiv/aids education by long-term AIDS survivors in the state of Oregon

 

Long-term AIDS survivors and Youth HIV/AIDS educators Rey Cordova, Bob Bowers, Rebekka Armstrong and Kalee Garland
HIVictorious' Oregon speaking tour included stops in Portland, Albany, Corvallis, Eugene and Alsea, Oregon...
We have over 100 years of combined living with HIV/AIDS. Stay tuned for more news and photos...
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You have guts Bob & you standup for what is right. Keep at it. 

~Jane
 
Thanks so much for the work you do in raising awareness about HIV and AIDS. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us in yours.

Peace,
Brenda
 
   

HIV positive speaker Bob Bowers with students after presenting to youth at Lodi High School in Lodi, Wisconsin-HIV/AIDS prevention through education

 
Hi Bob,

Every time I read that you had a great day presenting at a school my heart strings are just touched beyond words. A man with tattoos who is not what one would picture educating students (old school thought not mine;) . You are an inspiration my friend. Keep doing these good works.

~Dan
 

 

 
Youth HIV/AIDS educator, AIDS activist  & long-term survivor Bob Bowers, One Tough Pirate, also known simply as "Da Pirate." Bob has been living with and surviving HIV/AIDS for 27 years. Bob started as an HIV positive speaker with peer education programs in Los Angeles shortly after his diagnosis. To broaden his personal message of prevention through education, hope and awareness of the disease, Bob founded the nonprofit educational organization, HIVictorious, Inc. in 2005. HIVictorious addresses youth HIV/AIDS education and prevention and provides AIDS awareness in Madison, Wisconsin and throughout the United States through Bob's public speaking and its AIDS awareness poster contest, "What if it Were You?" Mr. Bowers is a leading and well respected AIDS advocate and leader in the fight against HIV/AIDS. As a long-term survivor of HIV/AIDS, and someone who has lost dozens of friends to AIDS, Bob is wholeheartedly committed to educating today's youth and young adults about the realities of HIV/AIDS, as well as living with AIDS long-term. Mr. Bowers is a champion for hope and survival despite some of the difficult circumstances that we ALL face in life.
 
 

 "Compassion is our cure." ™ ~ Bob Bowers

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